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So i was watching one of my favorite vloggers Dearnaptural85 and i came across this comment lol

TikiTubeable 9 hour ago
Whit it looks like your channel is getting hip to the hoodrats on Lipstick alley. I'd advise you to be
careful of what you post from now on regarding where you live, or anything of that nature. They are
mostly miserable groupies and enjoy digging up personal info on people, and things of that nature.
Even going as far as trying to find phone numbers to harass people on :l I know the website looks
like a normal groupie skank site, but they are an extreme low self esteem form of groupie.

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It took years for me to like, not LOVE but like, 808's and teardrops, i'm sure I'll be the same way with this new album Yeezus :lupe:
 

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Currently hooked :noah:
 

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Aye i need some advice:

aight- i met this chick(29yrs old,Project Mgr for software compay)
met her about 2 weeks ago
she recently broke up with her BF
we start kicking it and she is sweating me mad hard
then she tells me that she feels like she is falling for me too quick
we saw each other everyday
last Wed or Thurs i went over to her crib to chill and we have sex(it wasnt planned but i was wanting it to happen)
then she tells me that she feels bad because she wanted to take things slow and get to know me because she really likes me

-Sat. we went to see a movie and she asked me to spend the night
we didnt have sex because she wanted to prove that it was more than just about sex

now she is acting funny because she moved too fast with me
-I told her that I dont view her in a bad way and that I still want to kick it with her and see how it goes

- i think she bout to toss me in the bushes

wtf brahs?

help a nikka
I aint even been back a month and i am losing women

:snoop:

It took years for me to like, not LOVE but like, 808's and teardrops, i'm sure I'll be the same way with this new album Yeezus :lupe:

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Currently hooked :noah:
aye can you 2 give me some advice on this:wow:
 

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aye can you 2 give me some advice on this:wow:

You were the rebound bruh.

She got caught up too quickly since ya'll had sex early and now she is probably mad at herself for allowing things to go as far as they did.

Play it cool and validate her feelings. Sooner or later she will realize that you actually see her more than just a fukk and will stay around.


UNLESS she is still emotionally tied to her ex, and if so then you may wanna walk. :manny:
 

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You were the rebound bruh.

She got caught up too quickly since ya'll had sex early and now she is probably mad at herself for allowing things to go as far as they did.

Play it cool and keep reassuring her that your not going anywhere and that all is well. Validate her feelings tho so she doesn't feel alone in her emotional state.

i feel like a sucka:dahell:

she text me...
then i reply...
she hits me back...
then when i reply again, she dont hit m back up:dahell:


she initiates shyt then leaves me hanging



im cold hold me:snoop:
 

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aye can you 2 give me some advice on this:wow:

She wanted dikk first emotions later. Obviously she didn't share that with you because more then likely she was oblivious to it herself. Now she see's that its not working out with her back tracking and she will slowly distance herself away from you, possibly because she's too much of a coward to just break it off and admit she fukked up.
 

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i feel like a sucka:dahell:

she text me...
then i reply...
she hits me back...
then when i reply again, she dont hit m back up:dahell:


she initiates shyt then leaves me hanging



im cold hold me:snoop:


Aww im sorry :hug:


Ask her whats going on with "you 2" and if she is feeling any type way about anything because you noticed that she is a little less frequent with her communication.

Did she used to hit you back up and stay fairly constant before you banged her out?
 

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She wanted dikk first emotions later. Obviously she didn't share that with you because more then likely she was oblivious to it herself. Now she see's that its not working out with her back tracking and she will slowly distance herself away from you, possibly because she's too much of a coward to just break it off and admit she fukked up.
:damn: and i actually like this broad too:mindblown:


Aww im sorry :hug:


Ask her whats going on with "you 2" and if she is feeling any type way about anything because you noticed that she is a little less frequent with her communication.

Did she used to hit you back up and stay fairly constant before you banged her out?

man she was blowing my shyt up
up until a few days ago

she told me she was feeling too much for me too fast
she was talking bout wanting her mom to meet me and shyt:sadbron:
now she saying she cant think straight

she said she left her ex because he was too much of a loner and never wanted to do things with her and her fam



wtf

this feels shytty

i aint even been back from Afghanistan a month:aicmon: my heart cant take this shyt
 

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:damn: and i actually like this broad too:mindblown:




man she was blowing my shyt up
up until a few days ago

she told me she was feeling too much for me too fast
she was talking bout wanting her mom to meet me and shyt:sadbron:
now she saying she cant think straight

she said she left her ex because he was too much of a loner and never wanted to do things with her and her fam



wtf

this feels shytty

i aint even been back from Afghanistan a month:aicmon: my heart cant take this shyt


Yea, seems like she is trying to exit stage left whether it is because she only wanted dikk or because she doesn't know how to handle what she is feeling. idk :manny:

All I know is.....

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE SIR :hug:
 

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:damn: and i actually like this broad too:mindblown:




man she was blowing my shyt up
up until a few days ago

she told me she was feeling too much for me too fast
she was talking bout wanting her mom to meet me and shyt:sadbron:
now she saying she cant think straight

she said she left her ex because he was too much of a loner and never wanted to do things with her and her fam



wtf

this feels shytty

i aint even been back from Afghanistan a month:aicmon: my heart cant take this shyt

Ever considered celibacy? Hell just take a break from women and do you. You're young, black, single, with no kids...take a trip for a couple weeks come back home and recoup. Maybe you're doing too much at once.
 

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*Looks at all these threads in TLR*

If Black Women are so low on the totem pole, why in the hell are we the subject of 90% of the threads in this forum?




Maybe it's Inception Simping :ohhh:
Most of these dudes who hate on sistas only deal with sistas. They aren't going no where. The ones who only mess with white girls are the ones you need to give the :dahell: look too.
 
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