Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

Ria_21

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You'll have to learn to stop comparing your situation to the situations of your peers...You'll see them getting married around this time and feel as if you're late to the punch. You aren't really...25 years of age is a very young age..Let it happen spontaneously.

I know I really do it's just marriage is a really big deal for us. I've been feeling the pressure anyways from my immediate and extended family. I remember when I was 13/14 saying I was gonna be married by 25 welp.. it's not marriage really I guess I just want to experience "love" I've never been in love no man has ever loved me and I've never loved any man. I don't even know what it's like to have someone care for me want me etc.. I haven't had much interaction with men (romantically) i think I'm ready but seeing my friends get married has pushed me to at least start looking for someone.
 

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I know I really do it's just marriage is a really big deal for us. I've been feeling the pressure anyways from my immediate and extended family. I remember when I was 13/14 saying I was gonna be married by 25 welp.. it's not marriage really I guess I just want to experience "love" I've never been in love no man has ever loved me and I've never loved any man. I don't even know what it's like to have someone care for me want me etc.. I haven't had much interaction with men (romantically) i think I'm ready but seeing my friends get married has pushed me to at least start looking for someone.
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I know I really do it's just marriage is a really big deal for us. I've been feeling the pressure anyways from my immediate and extended family. I remember when I was 13/14 saying I was gonna be married by 25 welp.. it's not marriage really I guess I just want to experience "love" I've never been in love no man has ever loved me and I've never loved any man. I don't even know what it's like to have someone care for me want me etc.. I haven't had much interaction with men (romantically) i think I'm ready but seeing my friends get married has pushed me to at least start looking for someone.
Try halal dating site
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I'm ok. Trying to get things back together after the hurricane it's stressful and frustrating. Idk.
yea i would assume it is, just seeing it on tv is one thing but bein down there actually around stuff is another. Glad ur ok tho, and hopefully the fam is too. Chin up kiddo things will get better, rebuilding always seems to bring people together so look forward to that community growth.
 
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