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@Raava i apologize for my snarky comments earlier that wasn't cool to do to a friend. i shlndt project my outside frustrations onto you
 

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It's ok. What's wrong?
just dealing with daddy issues, haven't talked to him since December (though he constantly calls me) tired of his lack of involvement and drive for me and my siblings. he texted me a long paragraph about some shyt regarding our relationship n whatnot, i didn't really read it.
 

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just dealing with daddy issues, haven't talked to him since December (though he constantly calls me) tired of his lack of involvement and drive for me and my siblings. he texted me a long paragraph about some shyt regarding our relationship n whatnot, i didn't really read it.

As long as you made your peace with him, you aren't obligated to give him your time. Family or not you have a choice to distance yourself from people who disturb your peace.

Tho, if he is making a real effort give him a chance so you have no regrets. And you can tell if someone is making a real effort or not.
 

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We've been texting for like an hour and he's already sending off fukk boi vibes...
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As long as you made your peace with him, you aren't obligated to give him your time. Family or not you have a choice to distance yourself from people who disturb your peace.

Tho, if he is making a real effort give him a chance so you have no regrets. And you can tell if someone is making a real effort or not.
Naw he had 22 years to be a better man and father. We all have tried multiple times to express how we feel and he doesn't make the effort to step up. There's a lot of crucial stuff I'm leaving out for sake of time, length and my family privacy to really explain how selfish and inconsiderate this man is.
 

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Naw he had 22 years to be a better man and father. We all have tried multiple times to express how we feel and he doesn't make the effort to step up. There's a lot of crucial stuff I'm leaving out for sake of time, length and my family privacy to really explain how selfish and inconsiderate this man is.

Well there you go, don't let him disrupt your life.
 

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I made my own bra{lette} and panties today.

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this shyt took me all damn day.

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It's considered a bra, but technically it is a bralette; however it is bra sized which I love about it. It does have a hook and eye closure, but I've seen women make it as a racerback, as a sports bra, and as a regular bralette without the hook and closure.
Utimately, I want to make a brown version (so it can functio as a nude bra), and possibly a version with foam
 
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