Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[Paradise]

Thanks PR!! BTW You updating on your quest for a neutral look or nawl?

Wish me luck. He is so polite and fine. And a doppleganger for Ice Cube in a shade of mocha


If he shoots his shot I'm gonna throw my awkard, introverted drawls at him.

Ice cube...!!! I hope everything works out. Giiiiirrrllll i bet he is sexy and he has good manners. You had better try and snatch him up.


I'm gonna post some pictures soon. I have a idea that i think is gonna turn out to be pretty dope. If it turns out good tomorrow ill post it.

 

[wet landscapes]

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[Spike Tarantino]

Ice cube...!!! I hope everything works out. Giiiiirrrllll i bet he is sexy and he has good manners. You had better try and snatch him up.


I'm gonna post some pictures soon. I have a idea that i think is gonna turn out to be pretty dope. If it turns out good tomorrow ill post it.

I am so excited to see!! I know it will turn out great.

 

[Paradise]

I am so excited to see!! I know it will turn out great.

I've got my fingers crossed!

 

[CinnaSlim]

As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?

Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.

This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.

 

[Elle Driver]

As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?

Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.

This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.

Men are insecure what else is new.

 

[Paradise]

As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?

Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.

This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.

I thought "stimulating conversation" is the way you really get to know a person. I've had many of conversations with men that physically I wouldnt even bat an eyelash at. Their conversation and demeanor made them more attractive.

That is just asinine that they believe that they gotta be in a relationship to have "deep conversations." That just goes to show you the man that posted this mess probably hasn't had an intelligent conversation in his whole life.

These young men better wisen up or they are gonna be lonely with a bunch of fu** buddies. I feel sorry for majority of the men of this generation because they are just lost.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I thought "stimulating conversation" is the way you really get to know a person. I've had many of conversations with men that physically I wouldnt even bat an eyelash at. Their conversation and demeanor made them more attractive.

That is just asinine that they believe that they gotta be in a relationship to have "deep conversations." That just goes to show you the man that posted this mess probably hasn't had an intelligent conversation in his whole life.

These young men better wisen up or they are gonna be lonely with a bunch of fu** buddies. I feel sorry for majority of the men of this generation because they are just lost.

The guy that posted it has a big following on YouTube and so many people were co-signing, Women too.

 

[philmonroe]

I thought "stimulating conversation" is the way you really get to know a person. I've had many of conversations with men that physically I wouldnt even bat an eyelash at. Their conversation and demeanor made them more attractive.

That is just asinine that they believe that they gotta be in a relationship to have "deep conversations." That just goes to show you the man that posted this mess probably hasn't had an intelligent conversation in his whole life.

These young men better wisen up or they are gonna be lonely with a bunch of fu** buddies. I feel sorry for majority of the men of this generation because they are just lost.

People don't want to know you at first. Lol you saying men lost but saying people want to know you at first? I think y'all all lost. Lol Most times a guy just wants to fukk at first then get to "really know" you. A sucker and or a person you meet in type of setting where your mind came into play maybe but somebody that you meet otherwise they ain't worried about no talking at first. That's just to get to the other stuff believe that. At least for me and I won't even lie about it. If you didn't look good to me I wouldn't give a shyt how stimulating your convo is. Also what really is stimulating convo? People talk about stuff that isn't deep and or boring most of the time anyway regardless of what they do so I think we like to overhype stimulating convo up. I mean to most non geek people stimulating convo could be a civil discussion of issues here since we are talking black people. Truth be told its not stimulating its just civil because nobody really says any thought provoking things just isn't the junk you see on here.

I think that's why dude is saying what he says and on top of,that to many dudes don't keep it real by knowing damn well they not talking to you unless its a chance for something but front like they really into for more. I'm not a double agent and I'm trying to do things so I don't have time for it.

 

[The Mad Titan]

As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?

Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.

This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.

I hate all these lil social media "nuggets to live by"


Its just about being friend zoned cinna, all that "stimulating convo" talk is just word play. If you like someone like that all the convo's are going to be stimulating to you personally. You can take out stimulating and replace it with any positive adjective just about.

This is all about being friend zoned and less about stimulating conversations, those could be anything from video games, to sex, or the latest gossip.



Also deep conversation be it 5 mins, or hours is really hard to find. And if you do find someone that can engage in it, them being open enough to accept and not treat each other differently based on those deep conversations is even harder.

 

[muse]

in the past 54 hours i've had about 5 hours of sleep. work was hard as fukk the first night, but tonight at about 5 am i got this not that weird burst of energy. and it got me thinking its crazy how your body adjusts to things. like you wanna be a vegetarian? withdrawal at first and then a pizza pie. you wanna go on a hunger strike, piece of cake. you wanna go to a job you hate, without sleep, with people you hate to be around , its cool i'll adjust, but bytch you gon have bags
to be fair tho, i've slept about 42 hours of the previous 72 so it evens out. i really should be sleep now but my yin is anxious and excited while my yang is like "what ever, you obviously no longer care"

seriously tho, how the fukk do i get rid of these bags?

 

[CinnaSlim]

I hate all these lil social media "nuggets to live by"


Its just about being friend zoned cinna, all that "stimulating convo" talk is just word play. If you like someone like that all the convo's are going to be stimulating to you personally. You can take out stimulating and replace it with any positive adjective just about.

This is all about being friend zoned and less about stimulating conversations, those could be anything from video games, to sex, or the latest gossip.



Also deep conversation be it 5 mins, or hours is really hard to find. And if you do find someone that can engage in it, them being open enough to accept and not treat each other differently based on those deep conversations is even harder.

it's a shame. It's not hard to have a conversation. Most people just want someone to listen to them or offer advice.

 

[The Mad Titan]

it's a shame. It's not hard to have a conversation. Most people just want someone to list people them or offer advice.

I agree, also with me if there's nothing to talk about at the moment or its quite I dont try and force conversation. I'm ok will a few mins of silence, that seems to freak alot of people out. Like if there isn't constant and non stop conversation something is wrong.

 

[philmonroe]

it's a shame. It's not hard to have a conversation. Most people just want someone to list people them or offer advice.

Its not hard to have a convo but what does a guy that likes you really get out of it? He don't want to talk to you most times before the sex he just doing the necessary evil. Lol. Dudes are being disingenuous oftentimes when they say they want stimulating conversations with women they like. They want something stimulating but not convo. Now if he don't like you yeah but if he like you FOH that's the way of suckers and dudes destined to post on here talking about chicks want thugs.

 

[Paradise]

People don't want to know you at first. Lol you saying men lost but saying people want to know you at first? I think y'all all lost. Lol Most times a guy just wants to fukk at first then get to "really know" you. A sucker and or a person you meet in type of setting where your mind came into play maybe but somebody that you meet otherwise they ain't worried about no talking at first. That's just to get to the other stuff believe that. At least for me and I won't even lie about it. If you didn't look good to me I wouldn't give a shyt how stimulating your convo is. Also what really is stimulating convo? People talk about stuff that isn't deep and or boring most of the time anyway regardless of what they do so I think we like to overhype stimulating convo up. I mean to most non geek people stimulating convo could be a civil discussion of issues here since we are talking black people. Truth be told its not stimulating its just civil because nobody really says any thought provoking things just isn't the junk you see on here.

I think that's why dude is saying what he says and on top of,that to many dudes don't keep it real by knowing damn well they not talking to you unless its a chance for something but front like they really into for more. I'm not a double agent and I'm trying to do things so I don't have time for it.

I get where you are coming from. Unfortunately we live in I wanna test drive before I buy type world. I get that the guy is "being real" about the situation and just letting the ladies know... I want to get to know you but first you gotta give up the goods. But why does it have to be that way?

You notice that I put stimulating conversation in quotation marks and I done that for a reason. Stimulating conversation can be just about anything really. It's what you and the other person find interesting.

I'm not saying all of this generation is lost because of the fact they want to have sex before really getting to know a person... I'm saying that situation wouldn't work for me.

I guess you might as well skip the grunt work and get to down to business....