Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

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The 🏝️ Of Relevancy
Well, back to playing Mario. Gotta watch out for ghosts
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Lol, It's crazy how they disappear

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Had a convo with my lil homies today, and he's really feeling a girl he's been talking to on the phone alot. I assume the feeling is mutual as she calls him and he calls her. I was telling him, that yeah I know the feeling because I actually feel similar about someone I'm going getting to know..

The biggest question he had , and I couldn't really answer for him was when to chill. I was like I dunno, man if its gonna happen its gonna happen. To much gas and you scare a woman off and too little and they'll think your not interested. I basically suggested that whatever he has been doing just to keep doing it, dont add anymore and dont ease up. If she hitting you up she likes him. I told him to give a few weeks even a month or so. Hang out a few times then attempt to make it exclusive if it all goes well.

Then I got to thinking... that was some good ass advice, I should probably take my own advice:patrice:


how long do yall ladies like to go through the feeling each other out getting to know each other stage, before become exclusive? How long did it take with your last or current. Did you know right away or did it take awhile. I know situation can cause things to vary, but in general I guess.

Help me please! How do I choose? I went on POF got too much attention, met a few people, clicked with a couple, now how do I choose one? It's really soon too, so I've only been on like 2-3 dates each. Do I keep getting to know them both? Cut one loose?
 

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Help me please! How do I choose? I went on POF got too much attention, met a few people, clicked with a couple, now how do I choose one? It's really soon too, so I've only been on like 2-3 dates each. Do I keep getting to know them both? Cut one loose?
Which one has the best credit score?
 

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Help me please! How do I choose? I went on POF got too much attention, met a few people, clicked with a couple, now how do I choose one? It's really soon too, so I've only been on like 2-3 dates each. Do I keep getting to know them both? Cut one loose?

:wow: You finally getting the attention and love you deserve, I still need to go out with you before its to late though:lolbron:


If you feeling them both equally, or just about the same. I'd say whoever makes that 1st move wins, so who ever wants to make it exclusive 1st or has made it known to want to make it exclusive should get the honor.

That's if you ready to go back into relationship status, sounds like you enjoying dating right now.

You aint meant to be single forever, but I can see you being single another 3 years or so.:ehh:
 
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