Had a convo with my lil homies today, and he's really feeling a girl he's been talking to on the phone alot. I assume the feeling is mutual as she calls him and he calls her. I was telling him, that yeah I know the feeling because I actually feel similar about someone I'm going getting to know..
The biggest question he had , and I couldn't really answer for him was when to chill. I was like I dunno, man if its gonna happen its gonna happen. To much gas and you scare a woman off and too little and they'll think your not interested. I basically suggested that whatever he has been doing just to keep doing it, dont add anymore and dont ease up. If she hitting you up she likes him. I told him to give a few weeks even a month or so. Hang out a few times then attempt to make it exclusive if it all goes well.
Then I got to thinking... that was some good ass advice, I should probably take my own advice
how long do yall ladies like to go through the feeling each other out getting to know each other stage, before become exclusive? How long did it take with your last or current. Did you know right away or did it take awhile. I know situation can cause things to vary, but in general I guess.