Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

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She's 1 lmao.
use your actions
like don't pet her up or give her anything
it's hard to explain but, like, accept the sounds shes making without getting tense or jumping to "fix the problem"
sometimes the noises are so jarring and I think our automatic response is to jump up and quell the problem (which is good :patrice:) but it's not, like an emergency
*pretends like I didn't learn this from animals and not children :guilty: *
 

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I'm not scared. It's not gonna hurt me. It's just like disappointment. Why go through the trouble of getting your hopes up? I just take things for what they are.

I'm a very independent person so it's not like I need or crave for other people. It would just be a nice addition. At the end of the day the only person I can fully know, control and trust is myself. People will do what they want.
Regarding bold why not? Whether you won't to admit it or not its a true rarity when its no reason for why somebody does what they do. I also don't get my hopes up but if somebody says they are going to do it I just believe them no more no less aka "take things for what they are worth". I just don't have no fear of them not coming through or whatever the case may be esp when you said its not going to hurt me.

As far as it being a nice addition I don't really believe that when anybody says that just so you know its not just you I feel this way about. I think we all want that from a person that isn't our family even them GMB dudes want it that's why they always talking about how they were done dirty and shyt. I agree with the last sentence and that's all you need to do is control and trust yourself. Have enough control to trust yourself to make the best decisions for you and if you mess up we ain't perfect just learn from it and do better next time. Simple as 1,2,3 lol.

Outta curiosity are we talking relationship stuff? If so man that's just the norm and if you worried about that shyt you always going to be noid. Don't worry one of these dudes on here will scoop you up I've saw the thirst up close and it will have unattractive whales ready to seize the day
 

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I dont think so, your just cautious. I do this with everything, I hope and foresee the best but expect the worst. I do think that it can handicap you if your not careful, soon all you do is start to see the worst and expect the worst in everything. But you have enough self awareness to realize and keep that in check.

on another note..




Cinna I can't wait to see you happy:hug: you deserve it. Smart, kind, conscious, open minded, freaky:lolbron: cute and sexy!

no simp:birdman:


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Yes simp:noah:
Thanks :hug: I'm just trying to build myself so I can be an asset to my partner. I still have improvements to make. I have to be satisfied with myself above all.
 

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Thanks :hug: I'm just trying to build myself so I can be an asset to my partner. I still have improvements to make. I have to be satisfied with myself above all.

Being satisfied with yourself is key!

But I wouldn't worry about it too much, when it comes to others, you'd be a mental back bone, conscious and inspiration to any man with you in his corner.


If you asked me:ehh:
 

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Regarding bold why not? Whether you won't to admit it or not its a true rarity when its no reason for why somebody does what they do. I also don't get my hopes up but if somebody says they are going to do it I just believe them no more no less aka "take things for what they are worth". I just don't have no fear of them not coming through or whatever the case may be esp when you said its not going to hurt me.

As far as it being a nice addition I don't really believe that when anybody says that just so you know its not just you I feel this way about. I think we all want that from a person that isn't our family even them GMB dudes want it that's why they always talking about how they were done dirty and shyt. I agree with the last sentence and that's all you need to do is control and trust yourself. Have enough control to trust yourself to make the best decisions for you and if you mess up we ain't perfect just learn from it and do better next time. Simple as 1,2,3 lol.

Outta curiosity are we talking relationship stuff? If so man that's just the norm and if you worried about that shyt you always going to be noid. Don't worry one of these dudes on here will scoop you up I've saw the thirst up close and it will have unattractive whales ready to seize the day
If you have no expectations, you won't get disappointed.

No, I meant in general. I am not looking for anything. I have things to take care of. If I met someone and something happens, it happens. I go with the flow.

I just meet a lot of people who get ahead of themselves and move too fast for me. Idk if I'm missing out, because I do feel like I keep some people at an arms reach when they start acting too comfortable. I just been independent for so long. I'm not very social, I don't like being fake. When people are too friendly too fast I get a bit suspicious lol, like what you want or looking for. :mjpls:
 

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If you have no expectations, you won't get disappointed.

No, I meant in general. I am not looking for anything. I have things to take care of. If I met someone and something happens, it happens. I go with the flow.

I just meet a lot of people who get ahead of themselves and move too fast for me. Idk if I'm missing out, because I do feel like I keep some people at an arms reach when they start acting too comfortable. I just been independent for so long. I'm not very social, I don't like being fake. When people are too friendly too fast I get a bit suspicious lol, like what you want or looking for. :mjpls:
I don't get disappointed one way or another outside of family honestly. You probably meet people like that who get ahead of themselves because that's the only way some know. Some also don't think they are worthy subconsciously so they feel they have to be that favor doing person for people to stay around because just them by themselves isn't enough. One thing you don't ever want is the missing out feeling esp on stuff you want to do. If you thinking about it some time after the fact chances are you've missed out on somethings you wish you would have given a chance based on personal experience. Don't do it worse case you'll be back where you started and it least you'll know if it was worth it or not.

You're social enough I saw your ass on tinychat with some stuffed animal eye mask on son. You gotta be some type of social/comfortable even if only online to be comfortable wearing that when you know what that could potentially open you up to. You just need to take that same vibe out into the world.

As far as when people get too friendly too quick you already know what they looking for esp if they dudes you're not stupid. Its just a matter if you want what they selling.
 

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Found out Yanni is coming here in February. I finally get to experience Yanni high. Last time i saw him i was sober but i can feel his music in a space past my soul when i listen to him high. Its like his music is making love to my senses:noah:
 
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