I come down here with the intent to get my license, and a job and my own apartment. My mom says no, just focus on joining the military.
I don't want to go to the military. I don't mind it but it's not my first choice.
Time goes by and my savings runs out. She finally allows me to start working at her job.
Her husband gets tired of me at her house so she tells me to stay at my grandparent extra home (they live in another state but have a house down here). I tell her I don't want to because we don't have a good relationship, I'd rather have nothing to do with them. She says it's fine, they won't know.
I say hey, I want to get a second job since I'm not doing anything I can save up money either way. She says no. "I'm not gonna support you just for you to struggle. Join the military."
She loses her job, constantly borrows money from me. Now it's ok for me to get a second job.
Grandparents come down for the summer. Upset that people are living in their home without their permission. So I go back to my moms.
Husband gets tired again of seeing me. Mom tells me I'm moving in with my father in 2 weeks.
I call my dad and ask if he's spoken to my mom. He says no.
"Oh well, she said I was moving in with you"
"She didnt tell me but that's fine, Cin. Just make sure you get your license first."