Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

CinnaSlim

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Well, as an Army Vet, I can confidently tell you:

Time to make it or break it Shawty. Take control of your life, no matter how hard/insurmountable it seems. You can do this, and you WILL be succesful.


It's license time:ufdup:
I know. I'm trying to take responsibility for myself. Things should be a lot better once I move.
 

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:snoop: I just turned 23. There should be no excuse for where I'm at. Turns out, I can't even join the military anyway after all of that.
You are still young and you're gonna pull through! Stuff happens and things don't go as planned, but you just have to keep pushing. I was 26 when I got a license and it was by choice. I wanted to be truly independent. Once you get a license it truly is the gateway to freedom... I have faith you can do it!
 

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I did. My husband had me eat it a couple days ago and I got sick. :gag:

I'm not malnourished, I just naturally don't like to eat a lot, and I'm bony. I got it from my mom, she's naturally tall and bony too. Fat people can call themselves big boned. :mjcry:

Your what? :birdman:
 

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My Grams gave me a pep talk basically this evening. :wow:

"You need to stop sleeping your life away and stop being negative!" (both are true so :ehh:)

le me: But I don't have a job! :damn: plus I'm tired of asking for things..i miss being able to just buy it with my own money. :mjcry: I can't help BUT to be negative and sad all the time!(if anyone knows me, I hate being dependent on others for money or nearly anything)

Le her: keep putting in applications online and be happy you wake up every morning..well, day in your case.

le me: I applied nearly everywhere online! D:...and you're right T.T

le her: Then you may have to start applying by doing it offline.

le me: :patrice: i suppose.

so one question, does applying offline gives me more of a chance or something? just wondering.
 

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I have a wedding in September and I need to find a dress. I have this shoe in this color as well as black...sort of like a nubuck or suede material and I really want to wear a pair of them. Actually I'm not sure if I want a dress or a long aline pleated skirt or something.


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Pastel colors go so good with gray especially, lavender, pale pink, light green and baby blue. Oh and the color plum. Very feminine and flirty and sexy. I love gray.​
 

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Pastel colors go so good with gray especially, lavender, pale pink, light green and baby blue. Oh and the color plum. Very feminine and flirty and sexy. I love gray.​
I love gray as well. I love the color plum as well and I've been seeing it a lot lately, actually I like all your suggestions. I'm going to start looking for something.
 

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I love gray as well. I love the color plum as well and I've been seeing it a lot lately, actually I like all your suggestions. I'm going to start looking for something.
:blessed: wearing gray pants right now thanks to you lol. And you can always go with black with gray or silver accents if you can't find anything, thats my go to color for anything.
 
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I come down here with the intent to get my license, and a job and my own apartment. My mom says no, just focus on joining the military.

I don't want to go to the military. I don't mind it but it's not my first choice.

Time goes by and my savings runs out. She finally allows me to start working at her job.

Her husband gets tired of me at her house so she tells me to stay at my grandparent extra home (they live in another state but have a house down here). I tell her I don't want to because we don't have a good relationship, I'd rather have nothing to do with them. She says it's fine, they won't know.

I say hey, I want to get a second job since I'm not doing anything I can save up money either way. She says no. "I'm not gonna support you just for you to struggle. Join the military."

She loses her job, constantly borrows money from me. Now it's ok for me to get a second job.

Grandparents come down for the summer. Upset that people are living in their home without their permission. So I go back to my moms.

Husband gets tired again of seeing me. Mom tells me I'm moving in with my father in 2 weeks.

I call my dad and ask if he's spoken to my mom. He says no.
"Oh well, she said I was moving in with you"
"She didnt tell me but that's fine, Cin. Just make sure you get your license first."

:mindblown:
:francis::francis::francis:
your mom is...wow.
ever thought of becoming a nun? :ehh:
its in my back pocket if I ever end up homeless :hamster:
 

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:francis::francis::francis:
your mom is...wow.
ever thought of becoming a nun? :ehh:
its in my back pocket if I ever end up homeless :hamster:
I actually have, but I lost my religion lol not trying to become Catholic.

I could be a monk tho :lupe:

My mom is one of those people you can't tell nothing, so I dont even try to fight or argue. Things should look up once I get my license and move in with my dad.
 
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