Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[wet landscapes]

Yeah, apparently I'm a hoe because we don't use condoms. I'm on the pill though

lame
just because she's not comfortable with the idea of raw penetration doesn't mean she needs to push that off on you

 

[Raava]

Have you made a cranberry oat bar?

no but it sounds like a good idea

 

[jeh]

HA! I ALMOST got you! SOO CLOSE!
Too bad you're not here right now. I'm gonna be like and at the same time.

 

[Arishok]

She was out of line calling you out your name like that, but you should be careful. I know your smart, but it doesn't take much for a boyfriend to cheat and then you got a std or someone you meet to not even know they have something and pass it on.

All that a side BC is far from 100 percent. But your smart and you know this...


I really feel saying all this but your a really bright young lady and I dont want you to get caught up one way or the other.


Months ago I said "Dont get pregnant"

Lets keep it that way

I'm being careful, haven't gotten pregnant or caught an STD yet and I don't plan on it

 

[jeh]

If you look like that gif you posted I can try to get you too.

I don't sorry.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Dont know if any of you guys shop here but they got a good sale going on today only. Their clothing material isnt that great but i only buy sales stuff anyway. They have cute maxi skirts and dresses and bohemian type clothing which i like. If you have shoprunner then you get free 2day shipping. They even have an extended size shop for the bigger and taller girls. I wouldnt buy shoes from them tho.!

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I'm protecting myself from pregnancy since I'm on the pill and my current bf was a virgin so there's no scare of STDs unless he was lying or cheating. Also it's not like I'm telling him no or begging him to go raw, or any guy I've been with for that matter. It just happens when we end up having sex.

Do you get your partners tested beforehand?

Is your friend upset because y'all are having unprotected sex, mad because y'all are having sex, or because he's your (whatever #) partner?

She was out of line calling you out your name like that, but you should be careful. I know your smart, but it doesn't take much for a boyfriend to cheat and then you got a std or someone you meet to not even know they have something and pass it on.

All that a side BC is far from 100 percent. But your smart and you know this...


I really feel saying all this but your a really bright young lady and I dont want you to get caught up one way or the other.

I agree with everything you said.
I think those of us that grew up in the 80s have a different mindset. We saw HIV/AIDS & what it did to people.
I wouldn't call Mars a hoe for having unprotected sex, but I don't think having unprotected sex with every man you have sex with is smart either.
You & your partner can get tested today, but if they had unprotected sex with someone with HIV recently it may not even show up in their test. (But then would they be able to transmit it? Idk)
Idk I always feel like the best thing that could come from unprotected sex (aside from orgasm) is a child, and the worst is an incurable STD. Who wants to be taking medicine everyday for the rest of their lives? But that's just me.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Dont know if any of you guys shop here but they got a good sale going on today only. Their clothing material isnt that great but i only buy sales stuff anyway. They have cute maxi skirts and dresses and bohemian type clothing which i like. If you have shoprunner then you get free 2day shipping. They even have an extended size shop for the bigger and taller girls. I wouldnt buy shoes from them tho.!

This is cute. http://www.alloyapparel.com/product/spoon+linen+jumpsuit+178063.do?sortby=ourPicks&refType=
But I see it doesn't come in xs.

 

[MoonGoddess]

This is cute. http://www.alloyapparel.com/product/spoon linen jumpsuit 178063.do?sortby=ourPicks&refType=
But I see it doesn't come in xs.

lol you and your jumpsuits.
I never checked size above medium lol, i dont see small or xs unless they the only choices. Medium and large for me and depending xlarge if i really like the garment.

 

[Arishok]

Do you get your partners tested beforehand?

Is your friend upset because y'all are having unprotected sex, mad because y'all are having sex, or because he's your (whatever #) partner?
I agree with everything you said.
I think those of us that grew up in the 80s have a different mindset. We saw HIV/AIDS & what it did to people.
I wouldn't call Mars a hoe for having unprotected sex, but I don't think having unprotected sex with every man you have sex with is smart either.
You & your partner can get tested today, but if they had unprotected sex with someone with HIV recently it may not even show up in their test. (But then would they be able to transmit it? Idk)
Idk I always feel like the best thing that could come from unprotected sex (aside from orgasm) is a child, and the worst is an incurable STD. Who wants to be taking medicine everyday for the rest of their lives? But that's just me.

No but I do get tested every year when I go to the gynos

And she's upset at the unprotected sex part; including my bf I've only been with four guys so I doubt it's the number.

If she thought it was irresponsible or not safe/smart then cool but she didn't say that, she called me a hoe point blank period and she's done so multiple times. She's even told me a while ago, she wouldn't be surprised if I sold my body on Craigslist (after I jokingly said I was about to do it)

I feel like this topic on whether to use condoms or not is a slippery slope because even if my man does cheat and get HIV, like you just said it wouldn't show up on the test, so it's still a lose lose situation if we both come out clean and decide to continue to have sex without a condom.

Plus issue I had wasn't our opposing views on condom vs. no condom, it was her calling me out of my name. Had she voiced her opinion like you just it I wouldn't have an issue like I do now.

 

[bcrusaderw]

No but I do get tested every year when I go to the gynos

And she's upset at the unprotected sex part; including my bf I've only been with four guys so I doubt it's the number.

If she thought it was irresponsible or not safe/smart then cool but she didn't say that, she called me a hoe point blank period and she's done so multiple times. She's even told me a while ago, she wouldn't be surprised if I sold my body on Craigslist (after I jokingly said I was about to do it)

I feel like this topic on whether to use condoms or not is a slippery slope because even if my man does cheat and get HIV, like you just said it wouldn't show up on the test, so it's still a lose lose situation if we both come out clean and decide to continue to have sex without a condom.

Plus issue I had wasn't our opposing views on condom vs. no condom, it was her calling me out of my name. Had she voiced her opinion like you just it I wouldn't have an issue like I do now.

And you didn't slap the dog shyt out of her when she said that mess?

 

[bcrusaderw]

@MoonGoddess
@trilldealbaby what should I call my "light skin male appreciation thread"?

 

[Arishok]

And you didn't slap the dog shot out of her when she said that mess?

 

[MoonGoddess]

@MoonGoddess
@trilldealbaby what should I call my "light skin male appreciation thread"?

Ahh man. I dont know how i feel about it lol, youve been trying to get your rep up and you know how sensitive and fragile some of the male ego on here are.
Lol if you do decide to do it the it has to be something like African Kings or something

 

[bcrusaderw]

Ahh man. I dont know how i feel about it lol, youve been trying to get your rep up and you know how sensitive and fragile some of the male ego on here are.
Lol if you do decide to do it the it has to be something like African Kings or something

I'm not doing it in TLR. It'll just get bushed, and I'll get flamed.