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Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
Elle Driver
Veteran
Happened to me too. Tossed her to the bushes permanently.Still can't get over someone I've known for damn near a decade, been cool with since high school; would just disregard my feelings and call me disparaging names simply because we live two different lives and have different views/opinions on things.
I've said this before but I'm officially done now
Your friend could just be projecting her fears/problems/mistakes onto you. You don't deserve to take her fall. You live with the consequences of your life and she can live with the consequences of hers. Including losing your friendship.
Good morning ladies. Have a magnificent Monday 
I don't want to put words in her mouth, but she might not think it's smart to be having unprotected sex with someone that you've been exclusive with for a month. That's not really a long time. She's probably thinking if you're going raw with him (after being exclusive in 30 days) then you'll be like that with every guy you get with? Idk.
I've had my period for just about the whole month of March.
Had sex once & then it came back.
Had sex once & then it came back.
I have been going raw with every guy I've been with except one, still doesn't make me a hoe though
[Male perspective]
When I'm in a relationship with a woman, we start using protection early in the relationship. Im always weary, or shall I say concerned, when a woman is willing to let me go bare back on the first time. Now, im not saying shes slutty, or hoe or none of that. Because im usually s good judge of character. I'll admit. I know women who have unprotected sex straight up. nikka didn't even have to buy dinner or nothing. Just wham bam thank you ma'am.
During the relationship im in, yeah. It feels good to push inside raw. I'm a man, I won't lie, its cool. But at the same time, now days you never know. Better to be safe than sorry. other side of the coin people agrue that it's their life. You only live once, or say something like "I been going raw all this time and I haven't caught anything or got pregnant"
Well. No argument from me. I understand and see both sides of the coin.
Every choice we make no matter if its good or bad has its consequences. That's life. You have sex without a condom......you know the result(s) of that. Perhaps, it's better to be safe than sorry. Perhaps
I don't shame nobody for what they do behind close doors. You fukk who you wanna, kiss who you wanna, me personally if I don't know about your past then keep it there. if you tell me something about you. And its not adding up, thats a different story. Truth is everybody got a lil "freak" or hoe in em. Some more open and honest about it then others. Shrugs shoulders]
"Everybody can tell you how to do it, they never did it"
When I'm in a relationship with a woman, we start using protection early in the relationship. Im always weary, or shall I say concerned, when a woman is willing to let me go bare back on the first time. Now, im not saying shes slutty, or hoe or none of that. Because im usually s good judge of character. I'll admit. I know women who have unprotected sex straight up. nikka didn't even have to buy dinner or nothing. Just wham bam thank you ma'am.
During the relationship im in, yeah. It feels good to push inside raw. I'm a man, I won't lie, its cool. But at the same time, now days you never know. Better to be safe than sorry. other side of the coin people agrue that it's their life. You only live once, or say something like "I been going raw all this time and I haven't caught anything or got pregnant"
Well. No argument from me. I understand and see both sides of the coin.
Every choice we make no matter if its good or bad has its consequences. That's life. You have sex without a condom......you know the result(s) of that. Perhaps, it's better to be safe than sorry. Perhaps
I don't shame nobody for what they do behind close doors. You fukk who you wanna, kiss who you wanna, me personally if I don't know about your past then keep it there. if you tell me something about you. And its not adding up, thats a different story. Truth is everybody got a lil "freak" or hoe in em. Some more open and honest about it then others. Shrugs shoulders]
"Everybody can tell you how to do it, they never did it"
I'm protecting myself from pregnancy since I'm on the pill and my current bf was a virgin so there's no scare of STDs unless he was lying or cheating. Also it's not like I'm telling him no or begging him to go raw, or any guy I've been with for that matter. It just happens when we end up having sex.
I know what you mean. shyt, if I had a nickel for every time I was at the double tree or some suite putting the pound game down. Only to go through a whole damn box lol. I've mentioned in a thread a while ago I been in a situation at least once or maybe twice where I, after like (sigh im not good at describing sex and loving to women bare with me please lol)
Id choose to either get some more rubbers, stop, or keep going. In one of those situations, I kept going. It was the heat of the moment. The moon and stars were aligned, the music was perfect, I wanted and she wanted it. So yeah we did it lol.
As a man, if the result of that would have been a child or whatever, then I would accept the responsibility and not make excuses. Because at the end of the day. The sperm chases the egg. I got ex homies that be bragging and boasting bout this chick and That. But don't want to take care they responsibilities.
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QUOTE="jeh, post: 12509236, member: 20537"]Ot(kinda of)
I used to talk with a young lady going to school at that mall. Man, my first time with a squirter. I used to call her squirttle. Light skin stuck up long hair thick short chick from Virginia. I remember she got me a fitted cap just because one day out that Lids there.[/QUOTE]
I used to talk with a young lady going to school at that mall. Man, my first time with a squirter. I used to call her squirttle. Light skin stuck up long hair thick short chick from Virginia. I remember she got me a fitted cap just because one day out that Lids there.[/QUOTE]
Roswell, me and my brother just left the mansion shot some pool. He caking, im drunk. he dip put out with his gurl. My ol lady was tripping, I went to the store to get some papers. She coming out the store, I creep on the bytch, like damn, a these stores sell rubbers, can you go in and buy some. She laughing, and said yeah. She like who they for,
My lady tripping, I got to breqk her off right quick she needs that medicine
I get the number, told me she work at a call center, and stay 20 minutes from where I live. Kool.
So my partner moe(good to know a few taxi drivers and have on pay roll btw) like damn Will,
Weeks go by, we texting staying in contact off and on. I broke up with my ol lady, so the heat and spurs in the finals.......she off so we chilled all day. Talking and stuff. Now we leave, (keep in mind this is before the 3 ray allen hit) my bro text me like.....these nikka coming back, we head bacc to tge house. He leave, after paying me my money from our bet of course.
We alone, and man.........shawty got the whole bed soaking wet. I AIN'T even touch her yet. Bytch p*ssy wet just because. now my dike friend, she told me some game back in the day. "B" (she from new York originally but stay in the BLUFF) when you first fuk these women, fukj the SHYT OUT OF THEM. DON'T MAKE LOVE. FUKK HER GOOOOD. so, I bebt her over, and dawg, this bytch leaking squirting and shyt, p*ssy farting. Im like gawd damn
I go two more rounds, and I'm like, ma im out of rubbers. She like its cool.
Me
Shyt nikka I skeeted all in herbytch broke me off the credit card, the debit card, she got paid thst next week, took a lil trip to Va to meet her family.
she was in love with this dikk. I broke it off with her, cause she start tripping. Married kids and all that shyt. But breh, I WILL NEVER FORGET. I was getting dome from her one time, and this bytch going so hard, her nose started bleeding. And she would wipe her nose, and keep going. Probably one of the freakist, freaks that I ever freaked
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She was out of line calling you out your name like that, but you should be careful. I know your smart, but it doesn't take much for a boyfriend to cheat and then you got a std or someone you meet to not even know they have something and pass it on.
All that a side BC is far from 100 percent. But your smart and you know this...
I really feel
saying all this but your a really bright young lady and I dont want you to get caught up one way or the other.Months ago I said "Dont get pregnant"
Lets keep it that way
Boy of boy some of these men that post cannot take responsibility for a got damn thing. Yet they say that black women never hold theirselves accountable for our actions.
Classic case of the pot calling the kettle black...
Classic case of the pot calling the kettle black...
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lameYeah, apparently I'm a hoe because we don't use condoms. I'm on the pill though
just because she's not comfortable with the idea of raw penetration doesn't mean she needs to push that off on you