Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[Vashti]

They use plastic ones and a lot of lube I understand how that freaks you out tho. But honestly, they are only in there for like 5 mins (if the doc moves quickly because they know how uncomfy it gets) and then thats it.
You still need to do it. reproductive health is extremely important and even tho it sucks to get checked.

The first and only time I've ever gotten a check "down there" was when I was in labor. And honestly I wouldn't even let them use it until I had the anesthesia. At my hospital (county), you have to request the smaller plastic one. The metal ones are the default.

No lie..the next time I get checked, it'll be because a) I'm giving birth, or b) I have reason to believe that my life is at stake. I just can't get with someone digging all up in my sugar cookie if an orgasm isn't immediately following..lmao

I know it's a big no-no but I just can't do it.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I REBUKE IT!



update: it finally came.
concern has now been deactivated.

Lmaooo. Sorry girl!! I didn't mean to scare you. Glad your period finally. I'm waiting for mine too...for other reasons.

 

[Vashti]

Question?


I got this female friend-- met her back in 2009
been smashing sporadically


I have never been to her crib EVER
matta fact when i met her she told me she lived in one city but been saying a dif one lately
-i asked if she moved and said NO


all the other chicks i deal with always beg me to come to their crib but not her

-i even told her if she was tired of driving here i could go there

i think this chick is either married or lives with a dude

how should i handle this situation

Just ask her. Nothing to it but to do it.

Are y'all really "friends" or do she just hit you up when she want some and vice versa?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Just ask her. Nothing to it but to do it.

Are y'all really "friends" or do she just hit you up when she want some and vice versa?

i almost asked her "how come you never ask me over to your place" but it sounded so p*ssy in my head i changed my mind

she hits me up more than i hit her up

sometimes she stays a few days

she drives a 2013 camero-------maybe it's her man's car

 

[Token]

Timed myself to see exactly how long it takes to do mini twists.... 12 hours and 8 minutes. Might actually be a little longer since I forgot to turn the timer on/off when I would start or finish working. Ehh, 12 hours seems about right.


I need a life.



@Geoffrey_Chaucer your sig confuses me. I'm also slightly disturbed but can't figure out why because I'm so confused -_-

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Timed myself to see exactly how long it takes to do mini twists.... 12 hours and 8 minutes. Might actually be a little longer since I forgot to turn the timer on/off when I would start or finish working. Ehh, 12 hours seems about right.


I need a life.



@Geoffrey_Chaucer your sig confuses me. I'm also slightly disturbed but can't figure out why because I'm so confused -_-

you are confused because the con lit the fuse in your sub-con-scious

 

[Vashti]

i almost asked her "how come you never ask me over to your place" but it sounded so p*ssy in my head i changed my mind

she hits me up more than i hit her up

sometimes she stays a few days

she drives a 2013 camero-------maybe it's her man's car

Idk.. Do you really care or are you just being nosy? Would you still carry on with her if she had a man? If the answer to the last question is yes, then just leave well enough alone. If she ain't worried about her man then you shouldn't be either.

She could live with her parents though?

 

[Vashti]

Timed myself to see exactly how long it takes to do mini twists.... 12 hours and 8 minutes. Might actually be a little longer since I forgot to turn the timer on/off when I would start or finish working. Ehh, 12 hours seems about right.


I need a life.



@Geoffrey_Chaucer your sig confuses me. I'm also slightly disturbed but can't figure out why because I'm so confused -_-

Omg! I just went natural a couple of months ago and I'm obsessed with everything natural now..lol. What's your hairtype if you don't mind me asking?

 

[Token]

Omg! I just went natural a couple of months ago and I'm obsessed with everything natural now..lol. What's your hairtype if you don't mind me asking?

Lol. I'm not that great with hair typing but I would say I'm mostly 4b'ish, I think. It's a little looser in the very front and around the nape (super annoying) but the rest is tightly curled.

 

[Vashti]

Lol. I'm not that great with hair typing but I would say I'm mostly 4b'ish, I think. It's a little looser in the very front and around the nape (super annoying) but the rest is tightly curled.

That's what's up. I'm a very strong 4c..lol. Still in that twa stage

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Bought Mr. a lakers snuggie and matching slippers he did the 'raise the roof' move and everything

 

[Rawtid]

Timed myself to see exactly how long it takes to do mini twists.... 12 hours and 8 minutes. Might actually be a little longer since I forgot to turn the timer on/off when I would start or finish working. Ehh, 12 hours seems about right.


I need a life.

I love mini twists.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Groupon 2-3 day trip to the Bahamas for $199!

EDit: here's the link https://www.groupon.com/deals/ga-celebration-cruise-line-53

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Idk.. Do you really care or are you just being nosy? Would you still carry on with her if she had a man? If the answer to the last question is yes, then just leave well enough alone. If she ain't worried about her man then you shouldn't be either.

She could live with her parents though?

hell naw i wouldnt still smash if she got a man

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

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Omg! I just went natural a couple of months ago and I'm obsessed with everything natural now..lol. What's your hairtype if you don't mind me asking?

i sooo remember that stage.
your like and turn into a product junkie