A few black women dating out shouldn't be your concern when your brothers are acting like they need to get rid of being black like they're holding a hot potato.
When you absolutely love being black you protect it, defend it, nurture it, and *recreate* it. Although those in our community may have their flaws and shortcomings, you do whatever is in your power to identify the root of our problems and proactively address and treat them because you love it.
As the scripture goes a man who loves his wife loves himself.
but again you went over what I was saying in gist....
first personally i think we all should stick to our own races...but to address your point....why could none of us tell you that "a few black men dating out shouldn't be your concern,,," ?
why can't you just simply say....some of my fellow sisters make me ashamed that they just go for white guys instead of finding excuses for it, ignoring it, or trying to say its the fault of Black men they go for white men,..
all u gotta do is do a simple criticism