it doesn't make you a bad guy. you just have a preference. everything ain't for everybody. do what makes YOU happy. and if you don't want to date a woman with children....well....then don't
i married a woman with a child, and while i love her and my stepson, if i ever had to get back out into the dating pool, i'd avoid single mothers. not because they are disgusting or anything
, it's just that taking on the responsibility for another mans seed is a once in a lifetime thing for me. it's a large emotional and financial responsibility, and I refuse to repeat it again.