lowkey. nigerians are pretty petty, the older i get the more that shyt gets on my nerves. i just do my own shyt in general though. i dont care much about ppls perceptions anymore and appeasing these customs for validation points. some of it is unhealthyculture just a word for manipulation for real for real for real*
culture just a word for manipulation for real for real for real*
In the comments Yorubas and Igbos are like
though…
Diaspora wars in 3.....2....1.
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^^^ and I get that, and while it wasn’t a formal/hard rule, this is what I grew up with.Yeah her response was a little over the top. But it still stands. That's is not just the custom with the mother/father in law. That's the custom when an older guest comes into the house for a younger lady of the house to clean everyone's plate. My guess is that the mother came straight from Nigeria and never lived in a Western culture where it's normal to not do that, probably why she was so shocked
^^^ and I get that, and while it wasn’t a formal/hard rule, this is what I grew up with.
But no one would get in your face acting crazy like that about it. That shyt was PSYCHO