Parents need to get their shyt together. I know schools and teachers can be racist fukks, but the number 1 influence in a child's life is the parents spending time and learning with them. My parents did that job no matter what, no matter how much work they had to do, they went to every event, every meeting, were always on my ass and it showed with my whole family. My aunts and uncles were the same way and had the same turn out for their children.
Unfortunately, these values get passed down so you are more likely to inherit that mentality. When I went to college and talked to my Asian friends, I had more similarity in upbringing/parental expectations to them than I did with many of the folks I went to high school with back home.
I'm not excusing racist pricks mind you, but there's definitely something that needs to be done at home in every household.