King_Kamala61
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New #HOH Anthem “Now You A Single Mom” *6/11 Update: Madre Soltera Music Video added to OP**
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Thats the blueprint of all the economically successful groups. No OOW kids, no kids at an early age, no clout chasing.
People really let their sex organs sidetrack GENERATIONS of building wealth. I can see the government do a mass sterilization wave at some point, and neuter those unproductive horny people.
If it’s a genuine concern for black family structure then the “shaming” should be equitable between genders.
You and I know, the likelihood of a grown man shaming another man for being a single father is slim to none. It’s goofy
I ain’t click play on the video because the dude on the screen-grab looks corny
King_Kamala61
TheColi's Favorite Artist
Something needs to be done cause I'm tired of seeing it. If a man knocks up a woman he needs to look after his seed m, cause I do not trust a woman around my child.
Women in general in my experience do not.make good choices for children without a man input.
Anecdotal as fukk...but it's my experience, this is why I don't want kids. If I die before they 18, I gotta trust the woman to instill my will and raise them according to my blueprint.
These women cannot be trusted to.make great decisions solo...from my personal experience
King_Kamala61
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I actually know a Single Father and met him through work. I couldn't do it. No body deserves to be a single parent and he only got 1 which is manageable, but these women be having multiple kids and the dad ain't around...who you blame at that point?If it’s a genuine concern for black family structure then the “shaming” should be equitable between genders.
You and I know, the likelihood of a grown man shaming another man for being a single father is slim to none. It’s goofy
I ain’t click play on the video because the dude on the screen-grab looks corny
Especially if you didn't get knocked up while married and he divorced you? Atleast you got the ring. And he changed up ok. But they getting knocked up during the courting period and within 1 yr of dating. That's crazy these women and men ain't protecting themselves nor are they staying together to raise this new life that gon come.
Again. It's on both equally, but the courts of public judgment put it on the women cause these women always have good men after them and they purposely choose the ain't shyt negro over the good prospect.
Case and point..I was dating a chick in college and she quit me. She ain't even tell me she broke up with me. I was searching all over campus for her and then when I seen her in the student center she seen me and did a 180. Fast forward..she got 3 kids from the dude she left me for and now she a single mom and dude won't even pay child support.
This isn't for all women...but enough make horrible choices
I feel you bruh, I understand you mean well.
I just mind my business, control what I can control and what matters to me.
Certain people are losers and that’s okay lol. Shawty doing the 180* and being a single mom (in her predicament) is some loser shyt.
The information is out and accessible for all. If someone gets caught in some BS that’s on them.
…sell a brick…
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The “good men/good prospect” vs “ain’t shyt negro” you’re referring to shouldn’t matter. It’s magnetic. Levels will eventually sync.
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Chicago breh?
King_Kamala61
TheColi's Favorite Artist
Oh I get it, I had to accept my faults in the situation. I made a trash decision in dating her and that's my fault. Dudes gotta stop getting mad at trash women rejecting them, cause them women who don't choose a good dude ain't the ones you want tbt. I had to learn this tho.
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There are two final decisions. The man has options to protect his seed and if he choose to bust, he made the final decision to have the child. That was his final decision. He isn't carrying the child, so he puts himself at the mercy of someone else once he does. I don't care what he says...his actions dictated that he made the decision to have a child. A lot of men aren't responsible and put themselves at the mercy of women, then blame the woman for making her final decision when its her turn. You don't get women pregnant by accident...there's a series of irresponsible decisions you made that make you feel like it was an accident afterwards.
Once the man makes his final decision...the woman gets to make hers. Because a lot of men are irresponsible with their sexual habits, they believe the woman is choosing for the both of them. Any woman could logically ask you, "If you didn't want to be a father, why did you bust in me?" And it would be a logical question to ask every single time....especially for a group of people who swear they value logic over emotion.
If birth control is used and failed, it failed for both parties. Both sides took the risk of having a form of sex that isn't 100% guaranteed to work. If the dude busts with that knowledge, he still made his decision. Although he made what he believed was a calculated one, there were still risks involved. If there's a 5% chance I'll get hit by a truck when I go outside at this very moment, I might like those odds. But I can't complain if I get hit by a truck.
And there are plenty of instances where a guy says he'll pull out and he doesn't. There's times when a guy says he wants to get a woman pregnant then changes his mind once he's cooled down. We can point out outliers and misbehavior on both sides. Some women CHOOSE to be a single mother by forcing the father out of the picture, but there are ones who don't make that choice. The man chooses not to take up his responsibility to attend to the seed he deposited in her.
I'm not saying these women are puritans...but I am saying we're raising a weak and irresponsible crop of men if we're raising them to act and then blame women for the consequences of their actions.
wtf is that breh? did i unknowingly make a non harlem thread
In response to the soft girl era - where hoes make requirements.
The Soft Guy Era aka This dikk ain't free.
