New #HOH Anthem “Now You A Single Mom” *6/11 Update: Madre Soltera Music Video added to OP**

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Showin' the baaaby off

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They hit school age no.morr honeymoon
 

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I don't like it when people phrase it this way. Both parties get to make a decision.

The man choses when he either pulls out, wears a condom, or busts in her if he wants to have a baby...but for some reason a lot of men don't seem to understand that. Every time you bust in a woman, you're essentially checking the 'yes' box.

After that the woman gets to make her own decision...yes or no.

A lot of dudes have little discipline, make a bad choice themselves, then start harassing the woman to bail them out of the choice. If you didn't want a baby...you should have acted like you didn't want one.
Not saying the man doesn't hold some responsibility, but the FINAL DECISION is the womans and hers alone. There's no debating that. And what if birth control was used and it failed? And those instances where beforehand she said she didn't want any children but after she gets pregnant changes her mind? And this song in which this thread is about is woman who CHOOSE to be a single Mom. Thats her decision 100%.
 

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yea thats wildly irresponsible to put the blame solely on the woman. it takes 2 to make a thing go right.
It's not blaming her for getting pregnant, my point is she has the final decision on whether she will bring a baby into this world as a single Mom. From that standpoint, dudes song is 100% on point.
 

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On the real, what's with the obsession for single moms?
If we're being honest a lot of us (black Americans) are from single parent households who is typically the mom.
I think this is the incel pushback labeling.

Alot of brehs were rejected by trash women who picked trash men over talented prospects and then instead of "some" it became "all" Black men aren't good men and that narrative has been sewn into our culture and there is a pushback now.

If you meet the avg single mother in America, the father is alive and not on deployment. The woman picks the man and they don't make the man work hard to show them they are worthy for their hand in marriage or a relationship.

Yet the ones that do work hard for the woman gets friendzoned.

It's an epidemic and now you got b*stard kids running round rampant now.
 

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Women aren't reproducing asexually.
They need to make these men wear a condom or take control of their body and protect themselves then.

I don't want to get a woman pregnant and I haven't. I pull out or I wear a rubber.

Some of these Women will let you fukk and skeet raw and don't think about tomorrow. That's the problem. THEY CAN GET PREGNANT.

And I ask a woman straight up be fore sex if she is on birth control and if she isn't I ask what will happen if she gets knocked up by me.

It's irresponsibility on both sides..but the woman needs to protect herself from single motherhood.
 

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Yep. Women are stupid and always believe they can change a man. They love having a projects, it's a defect in their firmware. They always think that they can get a man to act right when his history has already shown who and what he is. It's ignorance on women's part. I try to tell chics that sometimes, to stop trying to change men cause no man is going to follow a woman.
Some of those women who end up single mothers do love build-a-negro instead of complete prospects...but again the brehs who are good men and want to raise a child with its mama gotta choose better, cause if a woman gets knocked up by a bum...that shows you your taste in women is trash.

But end result falls on the Mama by society...the man gets off Scott free.
 

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I think this is the incel pushback labeling.

Alot of brehs were rejected by trash women who picked trash men over talented prospects and then instead of "some" it became "all" Black men aren't good men and that narrative has been sewn into our culture and there is a pushback now.

If you meet the avg single mother in America, the father is alive and not on deployment. The woman picks the man and they don't make the man work hard to show them they are worthy for their hand in marriage or a relationship.

Yet the ones that do work hard for the woman gets friendzoned.

It's an epidemic and now you got b*stard kids running round rampant now.

The breakdown of the black family unit. Its far worse than birdbrain hoes choosing aint shyt men, its the lack of married households that black kids grow up in, and the parents still chasing sex and partying into their later years of life.
 

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The breakdown of the black family unit. Its far worse than birdbrain hoes choosing aint shyt men, its the lack of married households that black kids grow up in, and the parents still chasing sex and partying into their later years of life.
Juvenile behavior because they had kids too early. No one should have kids in their 20s...you just escaping teenage years and finally got some freedom and tryna score a career and wealth. And now you got sidetracked by a whiny ass 2am alarm clock baby and dealing with a woman post partum depression on top of being at work in 5 hrs.

Dr. Francis Cress Wesling spoke out about this alot. She said that we should only have a max of 2 and only to have children when we are in our 30s.
 

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shytting on single moms is punching down.

If you that nikka, single moms are not on your radar for serious dating. They ain’t a concern 🤷🏾‍♂️
That's the thing. Since we wasn't shaming them, they have been doing it with impunity. It's an epidemic breh. I was shocked to.meet brehs with both parents living in the home and still married or married.

I know alot of b*stards and children of divorced parents.

It's a fukking plague
 
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