My wife and i "temporarily" separated

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@twan83 @pureplaya

y'all nikkas dropping some gems in here...on some real shyt. I can tell y'all are some grown ass men with REAL experience with women in REAL relationships, who have been through the doldrums with queens disguised as banshees.

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stay in there my dog...your wife is just angry/emotional/depressed right now. When women are like that they say and do things they don't mean. There is probably some part of her that is feeling so ashamed that she feels unlovable right now so she doesn't want you around...not because she doesn't care, but because she feels like she doesn't deserve being cared about. Give her space and time and keep any communication you have short, cordial, and upbeat but not so upbeat that it feels like you're ignoring her depression...just keep things light until she opens up and starts coming back. She will. Trust me.
 

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The last thing she needs is to move away from her marriage. Good luck, op.
God forbid a child seeks support from the one person they've known and trusted their entire life. (Yes longer than their spouse) even more so after a miscarriage.
 

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God forbid a child seeks support from the one person they've known and trusted their entire life. (Yes longer than their spouse) even more so after a miscarriage.
I'm speaking from experience as an old(er) married woman. They should go through this together and lean on each other. Family members can be supportive without moving in with them. Events like this can take a toll on the couple. Separation at a vulnerable time is not wise.
 
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She finna get dikked down by a mandigno god and bring back that hot dog in a hallway p*ssy. God speed sir.........
 

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I'm speaking from experience as an old(er) married woman. They should go through this together and lean on each other. Family members can be supportive without moving in with them. Events like this can take a toll on the couple. Separation at a vulnerable time is not wise.
Hmm, I agree, but judging from his posts, the miscarrage happened quite a while ago and neither have been open or honest about their feelings since.
 

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THIS! right here is the realness of whats happening, @a murda your going to get conflicting ish like this. Breh, i cant even tell you how many times my wife said she is going to divorce me, im the worst person in the world, im a fukk up, she going to take my daughter from me. Women get frustrated at anything and will lash out random ish from like 2 years ago. Just cause this is happening, dont let it equal end of relationship. she says you sweating her, then give her space. that doesnt mean leave her alone she just wants to know you care and wants to push you buttons. this ordeal isnt a instant fix, it takes time breh, if you care, just stay in there.
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