My wife and i "temporarily" separated

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yea everything is decent ...she still at her moms... last night we were on the phone for at least 5hrs...that is honestly the longest convo we've had in years since we been dating :wow: .... overall we doing good she jus need some personal space but im still by her side..:obama:

Good deal.

Good luck :tu:
 

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yea everything is decent ...she still at her moms... last night we were on the phone for at least 5hrs...that is honestly the longest convo we've had in years since we been dating :wow: .... overall we doing good she jus need some personal space but im still by her side..:obama:

Good to hear that you guys are moving in the right direction. In about a month or less, get that boom box in the air in front of her mom's house.

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Real talk,
my wife had a miscarriage and we still havent recovered. She did the same thing but the main thing is you need to be there for her no matter what. thats where i dropped the ball, im not a emotional dude whatsofukkingever, and when she needed it the most i wasnt the man that i should of been and im paying the price in a way. thats all i can tell you is be there for her cause she may walk out or act like she dont need you but in all honesty she does. she wants you to care and show something, she wants that support, no matter what breh dont give up, you be with her as much as you can and she will come right back. its life man, this ish aint easy but when you married it isnt the bliss people make it out to be. marriage is 2 people working together and when one is working more then the other, ish happens and it doesnt work. be there for her, be the man you promised to her on your wedding day and stick with it. this is the time when your words and actions mean more then anything else in the world to her. every marriage has its ups and downs and its up to you to bring her back up. i did what these other dudes did and i fukked up bad. you live and you learn.i wish you the best of luck breh
 

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Real talk,
my wife had a miscarriage and we still havent recovered. She did the same thing but the main thing is you need to be there for her no matter what. thats where i dropped the ball, im not a emotional dude whatsofukkingever, and when she needed it the most i wasnt the man that i should of been and im paying the price in a way. thats all i can tell you is be there for her cause she may walk out or act like she dont need you but in all honesty she does. she wants you to care and show something, she wants that support, no matter what breh dont give up, you be with her as much as you can and she will come right back. its life man, this ish aint easy but when you married it isnt the bliss people make it out to be. marriage is 2 people working together and when one is working more then the other, ish happens and it doesnt work. be there for her, be the man you promised to her on your wedding day and stick with it. this is the time when your words and actions mean more then anything else in the world to her. every marriage has its ups and downs and its up to you to bring her back up. i did what these other dudes did and i fukked up bad. you live and you learn.i wish you the best of luck breh
breh thats some real shyt u just spit...:wow: honestly this the closest we've been in a long time and we're not even in the same house right now. We just been communicating a lot more....talking about shyt i need to work on, shyt she need to work on and shyt we got to work on together to remain one... Brehs I know talked shyt about my wife being a dead fish...but i gotta admit at the end of the day I luv that woman :to:
 

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breh thats some real shyt u just spit...:wow: honestly this the closest we've been in a long time and we're not even in the same house right now. We just been communicating a lot more....talking about shyt i need to work on, shyt she need to work on and shyt we got to work on together to remain one... Brehs I know talked shyt about my wife being a dead fish...but i gotta admit at the end of the day I luv that woman :to:

breh, marriage is communication thats the main thing that keeps it together, when you and wife communicate on that level of the same wave lengths, you guys get stronger cause you know what good communication is, when one of you stops the communication shyt goes to fukkin hell. hell theres moments where i wanna say fukk marriage and do my own thing or just talk my shyt cause thats me, dont beat yourself its life, marriage is the epitome of good and bad, when marriage is good, its the fukkin best thing you can be apart of and when its bad, its the fukkn worst thing you can go through, just keep doing you and her, fukk the other noise you hear, cause that isnt going to get you anywhere but her getting half your ish. take it one day at a time and show you love her and your there for her, not by putting it on a card, but do do with your actions and you will be good again breh

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Honestly, the first thing that came to mind when reading the OP is how did u just let her leave the house? But even before that, it was, why the hell is she leaving the house in a time like this?

Only reason i could think of is the man shes living with is a no emotion and no support giving brick wall...then i read "i just said ok"

:what: breh, i dint mean to judge you but :what:?...
 

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update!

This woman jus told me to quit calling & sweating her.....all i did was stop by her moms house to how she was doing on some random shyt :why:
 
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Nothing to report. I work with kids every day :blessed: pretty much raised my little sisters :wow: ...... I can't wait for my opportunity to bring life into this world. Even if it means I have to struggle through heartbreaking challenges such as this.
If thats u in your avi I would gladly help you with that:wow::noah:
 

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Real talk,
my wife had a miscarriage and we still havent recovered. She did the same thing but the main thing is you need to be there for her no matter what. thats where i dropped the ball, im not a emotional dude whatsofukkingever, and when she needed it the most i wasnt the man that i should of been and im paying the price in a way. thats all i can tell you is be there for her cause she may walk out or act like she dont need you but in all honesty she does. she wants you to care and show something, she wants that support, no matter what breh dont give up, you be with her as much as you can and she will come right back. its life man, this ish aint easy but when you married it isnt the bliss people make it out to be. marriage is 2 people working together and when one is working more then the other, ish happens and it doesnt work. be there for her, be the man you promised to her on your wedding day and stick with it. this is the time when your words and actions mean more then anything else in the world to her. every marriage has its ups and downs and its up to you to bring her back up. i did what these other dudes did and i fukked up bad. you live and you learn.i wish you the best of luck breh
wow breh, this maybe the realest thing i've read on here my g
 

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I miscarried half way thru my pregnancy so I understand. you really need to be with her. I was severely depressed months after it happened. my husband, family and friends helped me manage. just because a baby didnt survive outside the womb doesnt take away its value.
 
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