My wife and i "temporarily" separated

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i aint gonna lie it shook me up because ive never seen her get that emotional like that...breh my shirt was drench wit tears and emotion :to:...so to answer yo question breh yea i did shed a tear :to:
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a murda said:
she had a miscarriage i made a thread on it a few months ago breh

If you want the marriage to survive, get into counseling NOW. Don't wait until she 'feels like going'. She will never 'feel like going' and her depression will increase exponentially. You are not a psychiatrist/psychologist and cannot 'fix' her without professional help. Letting her go over her parents' house was a mistake, she needs to be with you so she knows you don't blame her for what happened. At this point, she feels like an utter failure and is trying to get away from you because she feels ashamed that she let you down.​
 

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If you want the marriage to survive, get into counseling NOW. Don't wait until she 'feels like going'. She will never 'feel like going' and her depression will increase exponentially. You are not a psychiatrist/psychologist and cannot 'fix' her without professional help. Letting her go over her parents' house was a mistake, she needs to be with you so she knows you don't blame her for what happened. At this point, she feels like an utter failure and is trying to get away from you because she feels ashamed that she let you down.​

:wow: ......she didnt let me down :to:......SHE DIDNT LET ME DOWN DAMMIT! :damn:
 

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a murda said:
:wow: ......she didnt let me down :to:......SHE DIDNT LET ME DOWN DAMMIT! :damn:

In her mind, she did. Not only you, but her parents, your parents, pretty much everybody who knew she was pregnant. You are the most important person in her life and she can't bear to face you because she feels you're disappointed in her. Letting her leave without telling her how it affected YOU reinforces that feeling. We spend far too much time trying to be 'tough' and not showing emotions, but in a situation like this, she needs you to tell her what you just posted.

Go get your wife and get some counseling or you'll end-up like me, divorced because pride and an inability to communicate your emotions wouldn't let you be the man she needs you to be.
 
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