My relationships have been positive for the most part. Why?

[JLova]

I read posts here and it seems that dudes have had some terrible relationships with women. I simply cannot relate. I've had pretty good relationships even with women that I didn't vibe with in the end. I haven't had to deal with infidelity (perhaps they were great liars), disrespect, ultra trife shenaningans, etc.

My question is how is it that my relationship history has been quite good while many men of the Coli have had awful ones? Are our vetting processes different or is it just the luck of the draw?

OR, are yall just not talking about the good relationships?

 

[Mac Brown]

Sounds to me like you livin the life playa!

 

[Mr210]

mine have been like 90% good, there are a lot of bitter men on here

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

Give it time player. I'm in the same boat. I'm always expecting the worse

 

[Emperor Sol]

There's something very few of us have that most here don't.
























































Heterosexuality. Cherish your gift well.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

You haven't met a girl that sucks the joy out of everything yet. Or A girl with confidence issues or a girl who is an absolute clinger.

They leave you feeling like

But honestly, it makes the cool ass girls even better. Such a relief.

 

[CrimsonTider]

I know alot of problems start from dudes not being 100% them at the inception of a relationship.

Its like they try to mold themselves to her preferences, then ends up becoming a problem when you cant fake it anymore.

I have had homeboys tell girls they dont smoke because a girl isnt attracted to nikkas that smoke. I see it whether its dudes stop playing vid games, watching alot of sports etc.

If you cant be 100% you in the relationship, whats the point of being with the person.

Thats why it bothers me so much when I see stuff like this:

Coli bruh, speaking on watching the KOD Reality show

going to be hard to watch this with my girl. I gotta pretend I'm disgusted the whole time.

"These dirty hoes, can you believe this shyt? *shakes head* Let me watch this a little longer to learn about these disgusting behaviors"

You have to pretend to feel a certain type of way about a TV show so your women doesnt think a certain way about you?

It makes no sense to me.

 

[RJY33]

80% of mine have ended amicably and we usually stay friends for at least a few months or so

Even 2 that ended real bad ended up coming around and we worked things out and were friendly with eachother after some time went by. My ex even offered to do wedding pictures for me and my current fiance.

Some girls cant be reasoned with and are crazy but if youre mature about it breakups dont always have to be nuclear meltdowns.

 

[HookersandIceCream]

If you really see into the background of the dudes that have had bad experiences, you'll find out that they are ratchet themselves.

 

[JLova]

You haven't met a girl that sucks the joy out of everything yet. Or A girl with confidence issues or a girl who is an absolute clinger.

They leave you feeling like

But honestly, it makes the cool ass girls even better. Such a relief.

I've met many women like that. I just never dated them.

 

[YBE]

I'm batting 50%.

4 major relationships. I only hate two of those bytches

 

[MikelArteta]

then why are you 30 plus and not married ?

 

[CrimsonTider]

Most of these are mad simply because they are not successful with women.


I have never seen a dude that has good luck with women ever do the type of complaining and bashing these guys do.

 

[Da Jungles]

 

[Sierra Mist]

You make great choices in women. Most of the dudes here want a woman who doesn't want them back, so she doesn't give any play so they say all women are bytches. Half the time their opinions on women come from women they never even dated. And for God's sake if you're in a bad relationship END IT, and fine someone who cherishes you. Dudes got it twisted on here. There is a lot of bitterness in some of these posts.