My fellow ladies.. (men feel free to comment)
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LOL. fukkin nig is obsessed with me. Considering the gay pms he sent that other nikka on here I'm not surprised though.
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Could have sworn I saw OP posting yesterday that she does the things she likes and fits her own personal style.
What you said was real. The thing is not only certain types of women would be attracted to these type of men and vice versa. If you're out here doing your thang you will get a lot of attention, its ultimately your choice who you end up fukking with.
resurrection
By Way of Deception, Thou Shalt Do War
Y'all don't do shyt for us. All that stuff y'all do is just so that you can compete with the other hoes. Male attention is just one of the things that is competed over. But if the whole world was females y'all would all be lesbians and do the same shyt. Men have nothing to do with it
why do you put the blame for all that stuff on us though? why can't you take responsibility for your own choices in life? why does it have to be men's fault that you choose to do this? and how do we not "deserve" exactly?Why are we so vunerable?
We're smart and beautiful yet we allow men to dictate our lives everyday.
Makeup, heels, new weaves, plastic surgery, the list goes on and on.
The things we do for our men... its incredible.
Even when we know that they dont deserve these things, we still attempt to fulfill their twisted fantasy based on pornstars of how "real" day to day women should look like. & this includes the nip-tucked/photoshopped celebrities with pounds and pounds of weave and makeup yet, men somehow believe this is how they look like in real life.. when we all know the truth ladies.
and yes, as women we compete with eachother which contributes to all of the ridiculous things we do to try to achieve imaginary standards.
I'm guilty of it too.. big time.
Even for women with the highest confidence.. we all fall victim to this worldwide epidemic.
Why?..
A woman will choose a man because he makes her feel a certain way (happy). she's in love with that feeling and wants the provider of happiness to stay in her life. So she does everything she thinks is necessary to keep him. If she has that feeling about him for whatever reason, how exactly does he not deserve whatever she chooses to do to in turn help him be happier?
as far as why you're so vulnerable, it's because on some level, you need us more than we need you. Our dominance is one thing that you consider attractive. because you're looking for guidance and leadership on a primal level. that's also why it's harder for women to have multiple relationships at the same time. Us men can have multiple girls cause we're the leader to each one and that's what they're attracted to. we're providing guidance to all of them and each one plays their position. women on the other hand couldn't pull it off because if every man is dominant on you, then if you had 3 boyfriends, then that means 3 different leaders all leading you somewhere different for a different cause/purpose. This leads to confusion, uncertainty and misery because no one gets pleased. this is why you're more vulnerable. you just need us more emotionally (in general)
BellaVenus
FEARLESS
Hakunah Mata... nobody is blaming anyone.
This post is simply me taking a knee & accepting what is.. not an attack.
Some of u coli catz really need a hug.
This post is simply me taking a knee & accepting what is.. not an attack.
Some of u coli catz really need a hug.
i was just directly answering your questions there. no hard feelings. and you,re the first one to talk about "attacking" too. I don't see how i need a hug though. I always say, there's no point in getting mad at this whole thing. We are the way we are and part of it is just nature. The game will never change. It just is what it is.Hakunah Mata... nobody is blaming anyone.
This post is simply me taking a knee & accepting what is.. not an attack.
Some of u coli catz really need a hug.
Nothing wrong with women having a heart...vulnerability is part of human nature when you want to let somebody into your life.
The problem with a lot of women is they become vulnerable with men that they know they probably shouldn't.
Men can be just as vulnerable at times the main difference is we aren't allowed to make people aware of it and especially not if we are hurt during that period of vulnerability.
The problem with a lot of women is they become vulnerable with men that they know they probably shouldn't.
Men can be just as vulnerable at times the main difference is we aren't allowed to make people aware of it and especially not if we are hurt during that period of vulnerability.
Anothergirl
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i lost brain cells reading this thread. 
i want my 60 seconds back.
i want my 60 seconds back.
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MadameMoreaux
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I completely agree. While I'm glad that feminism has granted us certain rights, I know that my primary job is to take care of my husband, our home, and our future children. There can't be two captains of the ship and I have no problem allowing my husband to be the final word on the decisions of our family. In the black community, most often women are the leaders of the family. It's rare that you see a black man leading a household
I disagree. A woman who is above the nonsense will not be attracted to a man who is a part of it and that goes the same the other way around.
People are pretty good at judging character. Just like you can look around the room and pick out the women who will probably let you hit tonight. I woman can look around the room and pick out the man who is full of shyt. Some women are attracted to these types of dudes, some aren't.