Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
Don't go there with her. Trust me. This is an ego boost for her, and her wanting to see if you still want her. If you go, on some simp shyt(let's get back together or I miss you too) you'll be validating her. She'll entertain it for a little while, and then eventually shyt will be a wrap again. If they're an ex, it's for a reason. Your 19 in college, your supposed to be fukking, having fun and KIM. If you want to go and just fukk her and bush her, then do that. But if you're trying to get back with her, you need to pass.
Oan,
I know you love them beckies, but I can't wait until you settle down with a beautiful black women, though breh. I'm counting on you. I see my little son in all you young brehs. He loves beckies too. I need to know that the phase ends and that yall eventually get with black women. I don't want him to settle with a becky. I hope you meet a cute black chick at school in the fall.
This is some good advice from an older brehette.
No judgement to breh but hope he comes home soon before he gets caught up