My ex dmed me on insta, I think she wants to get back together

killacal

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I’m 19 I’m not wifing anybody lmao. Brixx is a pizza place btw
It's still unnecessary socializing shes making you do which makes no sense if she asked you for a break.... it's actually worse if it's a pizza spot than a club

Who meets at a pizza spot:hhh:

White bytch got u moving irrationally and unable to see it my nikka:mjlol:
 

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Nah not fishing for a plat, I just posted because these nikkas always asking for pics. I’m about to delete them though

Young breh..

Learn to keep certain things to yourself! How many people here posts pics of their women or men on this site?

You know the answer..

Other than that, do your thing! You seem happy that life is treating you well..

Have fun! You are young, so cherish it because you will eventually get older, priorities will change and your perspective on life will change. Trust me on that!
 

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so last night I was playing battlefield, died looked at my phone, checked insta and saw I had a dm from my ex. The same one from these posts:






Talking about some “oh I heard about your tooth I hope you’re okay. Been thinking about you saw you deleted all your posts” whatever. Talked to her for a while and we made plans to meet up tonight. Y’all think I should go? 99% chance it ends in me smashing but I think this chick is bipolar just because of the mood swings and shyt, don’t need any unnecessary drama and she knows how to bring it, but she do got some good p*ssy. What would y’all do? Oh and btw I don’t want to take her back, this single life is treating a young nikka good :blessed: just wondering if I should smash one more time and then ghost
Or be a mature dude on my grown man shyt and politely call it off and keep it pushing


Pics:
Some of dm conversation
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Regular photo of her:


ON and off again relationships are for people who don't know how to work thru issues but are too p*ssy to move on with their lives and build with other people.


But after reading your OP even Stevie Wonder can see what's going on

She wanted some new dikk

broke it off with you

thotted it up

Got dikked down

got scared of new prospects or didn't see nothing worth pursuing. THen she came running back to you cuz you give her the attention she desires.
 
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All kidding aside OP...

Do you have the juice? If so, are her friends into you?

You young so you’re up for the bullshyt. fukk her & her friends as long as you can then just claim you’ve been emotionally reeling since things went bad
 

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I know thecoli is full of pro black militants who never interact with white people, but y’all don’t gotta bring that shyt in here when I’m asking for advice

Don't go there with her. Trust me. This is an ego boost for her, and her wanting to see if you still want her. If you go, on some simp shyt(let's get back together or I miss you too) you'll be validating her. She'll entertain it for a little while, and then eventually shyt will be a wrap again. If they're an ex, it's for a reason. Your 19 in college, your supposed to be fukking, having fun and KIM. If you want to go and just fukk her and bush her, then do that. But if you're trying to get back with her, you need to pass.


Oan,
I know you love them beckies, but I can't wait until you settle down with a beautiful black women, though breh. I'm counting on you. I see my little son in all you young brehs. He loves beckies too. I need to know that the phase ends and that yall eventually get with black women. I don't want him to settle with a becky. :mjcry: I hope you meet a cute black chick at school in the fall. :blessed:
 

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@Colgatebrah You love a white bytch bro :mjlol:

Idk man I aint experienced enough to give any proper advice but knowing me Id try and hit it.

One thing I’m trying to do though is limit interactions women who bring only potential p*ssy and guaranteed drama to the table.
 

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All kidding aside OP...

Do you have the juice? If so, are her friends into you?

You young so you’re up for the bullshyt. fukk her & her friends as long as you can then just claim you’ve been emotionally reeling since things went bad
I fukked one of her friends after we broke up and posted her titties on here:mjgrin:

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/rate-these-titties-thecoli-nsfw.707048/

Funny enough when I posted a dark skin black girl I got negged into oblivion
:russ: Coli militants are inconsistent
 
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