My boyfriend uses racial slurs during sex with me and I'm not sure what to do about it.

[SheWantTheD]

This some bedwench shyt right? yeah.. I'm right.

And why is she telling us about how he's simping and paying for her to get her Master's? She must have a bachelor's then, why can't she find a job and why is she broke? She said the third time they had sex, he started doing that racist bullshyt yet she stayed with him. Why? Because all of the things he was doing for her outweighed his racist bullshyt.

She's not gonna leave dude anytime soon, or at least not until she finishes her masters, gets a decent paying job and is back on her feet financially.

She's just asking for attention, that is if this ain't a lie.

It should be automatic bushes for any self-respecting person, or they have to get some sort of counseling for their racism and never do that shyt again.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

These nikkas need to stop saving these weak ass wenches man

@Theraflu you can't even save the women in YOUR OWN FAMILY, so what makes me think you could convince us to save some bytch WHO DOESNT WSNT TO BE SAVED IN THE FIRST PLACE??

"Don't save her, she don't want to be saved, don't save her, she don't want to be saved"

 

[Mr Rager]

fukking idiot...

Have some self respect, get a god damn job, and leave that racist eurocac in the dust...how hard is that

 

[Theraflu]

This some bedwench shyt right? yeah.. I'm right.

And why is she telling us about how he's simping and paying for her to get her Master's? She must have a bachelor's then, why can't she find a job and why is she broke? She said the third time they had sex, he started doing that racist bullshyt yet she stayed with him. Why? Because all of the things he was doing for her outweighed his racist bullshyt.

She's not gonna leave dude anytime soon, or at least not until she finishes her masters, gets a decent paying job and is back on her feet financially.

She's just asking for attention, that is if this ain't a lie.

It should be automatic bushes for any self-respecting person, or they have to get some sort of counseling for their racism and never do that shyt again.

This is one of the best responses in here, she needs create an exit plan. Probably keep money away till her masters are over and then leave these dude for good, if she has a child with him it's over. And therapy for her for having survived an abusive relationship.

For now her energy should be on her escape from her racist, exploitative, abusive boyfriend. Poor woman.

 

[bordeaux]

sounds like shes really there for the room and board while she finishes up her masters. she knows its something she can live w/ so just be honest w/ herself about it. i dont think shes really seeking any advice here.

 

[Theraflu]

These nikkas need to stop saving these weak ass wenches man

@Theraflu you can't even save the women in YOUR OWN FAMILY, so what makes me think you could convince us to save some bytch WHO DOESNT WSNT TO BE SAVED IN THE FIRST PLACE??

"Don't save her, she don't want to be saved, don't save her, she don't want to be saved"

have some sympathy, this woman was lured by kindness by an abusive racist, he preyed on her vulnerability as she had nowhere to live and presented himself as a nice guy, now that she's trapped she has no choice but to go to a shelter or be homeless and believe it or not most woman would rather be under a roof in an abusive relationship than otherwise. This relationship is emotionally and sexually abusive with race thrown in.

As black men we should understand the agony of being a white supremacist system where sometimes the people feeding us are our racial abusers. There is no difference between this lady and the dude working at a job with a racist boss to feed his kids...no difference!

 

[Unknown Poster]

Leave!

why does this seem like such a difficult concept?

 

[Theraflu]

why does this seem like such a difficult concept?

she needs to PLAN her leaving...she can't just walk out of where she lives with a backpack...this isn't the movies. A 36 year old woman doesn't 'run away' from home. She needs to be financially stable first.

 

[Unknown Poster]

she needs to PLAN her leaving...she can't just walk out of where she lives with a backpack...this isn't the movies. A 36 year old woman doesn't 'run away' from home. She needs to be financially stable first.

i see

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

have some sympathy, this woman was lured by kindness by an abusive racist, he preyed on her vulnerability as she had nowhere to live and presented himself as a nice guy, now that she's trapped she has no choice but to go to a shelter or be homeless and believe it or not most woman would rather be under a roof in an abusive relationship than otherwise. This relationship is emotionally and sexually abusive with race thrown in.

As black men we should understand the agony of being a white supremacist system where sometimes the people feeding us are our racial abusers. There is no difference between this lady and the dude working at a job with a racist boss to feed his kids...no difference!

straight and utter bullshyt dude

There is ALWAYS a way out, BUT SHE DOESNT WANT A WAY OUT.

She wants to still see if she can change him, why do you think she went to a majority white male forum for advice? Not a female support group, not a female forum, nor did she reach out to her own people but to a white male audience??

And again you are asking black men to support and sympathize with a complete traitor and obviouslyy mentally unstable trodglidyte, who PICKED this man. WOMEN pick men and she CHOSE to be with this cac and even if she use her brain and decide to leave she will be damaged goods that no respectable black man should get involved with.

There is a difference because the boss can be reported and no black person with any dignity will tolerate such abuse, it's illegal.

 

[goatnole]

she needs to PLAN her leaving...she can't just walk out of where she lives with a backpack...this isn't the movies. A 36 year old woman doesn't 'run away' from home. She needs to be financially stable first.

shytin me, it's done everyday. Her pride won't let her go because she's most likely shytted on other blacks thinking she done hit the lottery with her white daddy.

 

[Prince Mongo]

have some sympathy, this woman was lured by kindness by an abusive racist, he preyed on her vulnerability as she had nowhere to live and presented himself as a nice guy, now that she's trapped she has no choice but to go to a shelter or be homeless and believe it or not most woman would rather be under a roof in an abusive relationship than otherwise. This relationship is emotionally and sexually abusive with race thrown in.

As black men we should understand the agony of being a white supremacist system where sometimes the people feeding us are our racial abusers. There is no difference between this lady and the dude working at a job with a racist boss to feed his kids...no difference!

That bytch is weak minded and pathetic and the nikka in that scenario you created would be to. You sound retarded af, this dumb bytch doesn't deserve any sympathy. She should just keep eating that white man's dikk until she dies. Actually that white boy is probably right, the bytch is worthless and her ancestors would be ashamed. You sound soft af

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You can't be that dumb breH. Let's say she got a car note, insurance, random credit card bills, etc. He's paying them all.

Just moving out and getting a minimum wage job isn't going to cover all that. And not everyone has family that can help them out when they're down.

Because im not dumb bytch


Shes a fukking grown ass woman... Older than me with a fukking degree

If shes working a minumum wage job, in which she most likely wouldnt be, then she still wouldnt be fukking broke.

And who doesnt have bills? Are you nikkas serious right now? So she's better off staying with a closet racists because he pays her credit cards bills, insurance, etc., then going off on her own and reupping in life???

And even all that shyt shouldnt even equal to $1000 a fukking month. So she cant find a job paying her atleast 40k with a degree to pay on basic bullshyt bills?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Poeple can't just UP and leave otherwise she'll end up in a shelter...she MUST create a plan first

Then be in a shelter


nikkas must aint got no fukking dignity around here


And i mentioned other options for her ass. Not at any point did i insinuate her not having a plan. But there is NO REASON for a person with a college degree and experience to not be able to get a fukking job.

Shes not even trying, she said she was going back to school for her Masters on his dime. If hoes and nikkas that think like hoes, think that shyt is cool then


Exchanging money to get treated like shyt and nikkas cosigning

 

[blackzeus]

.

I have looked into Raceplay BDSM and saw it was a real thing but I just can't get comfortable with it and whenever I bring it up he ignores me and tells me I am overreacting and that he can't possibly be a racist since he's in love with a black woman.

1)

2) I came in here thinking it was a black dude who could only get off calling is girl a wet dog smelling white bread CAC meth whore only to be sorely disappointed