My best friend is in his last phase of his Divorce, my other best friend is in the beginning phase....

[The BasedFather]

Mfs couldn’t pay me a billion dollars a year to get married

I don’t give a fukk if Putin had a nuke hovering above my head rn ready to drop that bytch

Not legally signing my life over to some broad. fukked up he lost his house, having to pay everything too, but he knew the risks

Folks I know that are married are miserable. All the cheating, disrespect and emotional rollercoaster of it all smh. And women usually come out clean while men get shytted on. No thanks

 

[Rekkapryde]

Did he vett that girl ?

NOPE

 

[Rekkapryde]

Never marry a:

Selfish Person
Attention Whore/Validation Seeker
Poor Financial Skills/Money Management

Above are Mandatory requirements.

Optional but should be mandatory:
Marrying Up
Aspirational Person
Faith Based Person


Nothing is 100% fool proof, but play the percentages.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Been happily married for 8 years and and none of my other friends have for 10,15,20 thee issues either. Seems like his wife was never into him if you peeped it early and he forced a relationship. And also why does your friends wives rub you the wrong way in every scenario . Also I advise pre marriage counseling it really brings out the bullshyt you need to work on before getting married.

I had to leave a few relationships like this in my 30s. I was so used to me and a chick going our seperate ways in our 20s when we got tired of each other that I was baffled when I got to my 30s and found women my age that will continue to be in a relationship they ain't feeling.

They making the Triple H face at you whole time . No sex, no romance, just frigidness, no cooking, no quality time, just anger and misery.

But then you try and give her key back so you can go your seperate ways `and now shes like

 

[King Sun]

I had to leave a few relationships like this in my 30s. I was so used to me and a chick going our seperate ways in our 20s when we got tired of each other that I was baffled when I got to my 30s and found women my age that will continue to be in a relationship they ain't feeling.

They making the Triple H face at you whole time . No sex, no romance, just frigidness, no cooking, no quality time, just anger and misery.

But then you try and give her key back so you can go your seperate ways `and now shes like

Some people are meant to be life long friends instead ofwives/husbands no matter how much you like this. I wish more people realizes this its a place for everybody in your life

 

[ExodusNirvana]

You have to know who your woman is before you marry her.

A lot of people say women switch up after marriage but all it really takes is a "Yo you sure you want to be a wife and a mother?"

Because once we take that step, your life prior to that ENDS.

And I don't think a lot of people understands what that means.

 

[Born Rich]

you don’t feel weird airing the homies’ business online, breh?…

edit: didn’t read btw…shyt too chatty patty for me…

 

[Stuntone]

You have to know who your woman is before you marry her.

A lot of people say women switch up after marriage but all it really takes is a "Yo you sure you want to be a wife and a mother?"

Because once we take that step, your life prior to that ENDS.

And I don't think a lot of people understands what that means.

Nah bruh, the woman you met and marry at 25 is a whole other woman at 35.

My brother is very religious, damn near a pastor, he told me in pre marriage canceling, you have to love the strange your wife will become...

 

[Diondon]

I thought divorces only affected the rich

 

[ItsPeople]

I had to leave a few relationships like this in my 30s. I was so used to me and a chick going our seperate ways in our 20s when we got tired of each other that I was baffled when I got to my 30s and found women my age that will continue to be in a relationship they ain't feeling.

They making the Triple H face at you whole time . No sex, no romance, just frigidness, no cooking, no quality time, just anger and misery.

But then you try and give her key back so you can go your seperate ways `and now shes like

Once you show them you’re willing to take the L watch how quick they switch up haha

 

[Chrishaune]

And a lot of Western men still don't realize they married their enemy. Lala land.

When it hits the fan though, they will realize.

 

[Geek Nasty]

Shytty deal. You get 20k out of the house and extend your mortgage 8+ years? Those are the worst years of interest. Probably cost him $150k in future interest.

 

[Mike Nasty]

Met my dog working IT in DC in 2007. Cool , hardworking Bmore dude. Works IT and has a union job at the Baltimore Harbor. Just one of them good dudes that tried to do things the right way. College, good career, wife, house, kids. In the early days I could see things weren't right. I've posted about him on her before, but he would work 12 hours a day and would come home to an unemployed wife with no meal prepared. On top of that she was rationing out sex. To me, that's major disrespect. He help get her a Top Secret clearance and Lifestyle poly. They're banking, but she just keep getting worse. Fast forward to 2023, after years of complaining, his wife finally drops the divorce papers on him. He already pays for most of everything. Mortgage and 2 kids in private school. My boy making around 180k a year. He moves back in with his parents, gets a lawyer (5k retainer) + a few thousands every other month. After the lawyers do a financial colonoscopy on both of them. He finds out she's been saving (30k+) while his spending all his money on the kids and trips and upgrading their home. After a year an a half of depression and misery ( suicidal a one point). Plus kids shytting on him. It was settled.

1.Wife gets the house (she has to refinance and give him the equity out of the home) He has to pay her closing cost and tax.
Got the house for 315k in 2017, now it's work 450k. Says some how he's only getting about 20k.


2. Plus pay 1700$ monthly child support and pay the kids private school I think is around 6k a year.

How is this even a GMB story, sounds like he takes Ls at every turn in life.

 

[The ADD]

Guess I should cancel this wedding

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

you don’t feel weird airing the homies’ business online, breh?…

edit: didn’t read btw…shyt too chatty patty for me…

i'd be funny of the friend had an account here and was reading this right now like "damn, you gossiping about my struggles online breh? "