Depends on your individual perspective. I personally see more black men with non black women and their mixed kids very often cause I work at a grocery store. shyt two days ago I seen one white girl stroll through with like four black dudes. Weird
But what really matters? Where you sow your oats or who you leave your legacy to?
I mean there's often talk of building generational wealth in the family but I don't see too many black women running around with half black babies. That's just my perspective.
All in all, I doubt yall give a damn about the opinions of people who do date out and I'm sure the feeling is mututal...so there's no real need to even argue
LMAO! Of course u don't! Nobody who goes outside instead thinking the internet is representative of real life does!
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I really do want to know the underlying reasons why they do this is though?
Is it really self hate, and the idea that Black women are unattractive and unwanted confirms their projection of that hate onto us?
Is it shame, where they know theirs something very abnormal about the way Black men elevate features of other races over their own, so they try to deflect it back on Black women and say we're just as guilty?
Or is it really just as simple as white worship? I mean the way some of them talk about white men it is as if they are deities. Like you said, they aren't hard to get, and they certainly aren't hard to keep especially if black women's standards for white men were as low as what black men's standards for white women often are.
I think apart of the fellas arguing this nonsense is natural biological instinct and paranoia that comes from being men.
Men like to harp on female irrationality not realizing that it only takes a whiff of p*ssy for them to lose all logic.
And that's what is happening here. It's just males overhyping female sexuality in an attempt to control it while maximizing their own opportunities and access to as much p*ssy as possible.
As a female it's mildly irritating to me but I accept it as a relatively healthy normal part of masculinity. I remember something similar on the History Channel. Historians recalled during Roman Empire, Roman males fukked whatever they wanted while keeping their women under lock and key. And even tho most Roman women couldn't breathe w/o consequence, the men were STILL obsessed with ideas of female infidelity so much so that dildos were created and myths about all women orgies and tribes from the island of Lesbo.
It's just the way males work. They ALWAYS assume we fukking EVERYTHING. One guy told me once it's because if he was a chick and could get sex as easy as we could he WOULD be fukking everything. Trying to explain to him how our minds work and that he was still approaching it from a masculine desire to have as much sex as possible was one of the most futile conversations I had in my LIFE.
And all that's fine and well until u add a very nasty historical context to this discussions where our people were enslaved by whites. So now some of these dudes are literally insulting blk females who were legitimately raped in the past or coerced and brainwashed blk girls in a system of sex slavery b/c they themselves have bought into white supremacy. They can't fathom their own women whose inferiority they've internalized (I mean I've seen blk dudes themselves posting racist demeaning shyt about their own women) legit not wanting white males.
Do you know we are the ONLY group of women DOCUMENTED to not give a fukk about white peen? I've posted the studies and these dudes fall over themselves ignoring them. They ignore how IR relationships have to be MARKETED to blk women just to make it even palatable to them. They're not using logic. They dikks got them looking at us as enemies where there are none. And of course, b/c some want white women themselves but don't wanna wear a c00n crown by themselves, they gotta have a scapegoat for not wanting the female counterpart of what they see everyday when they look in the mirror. In order for them not to look like weirdos for all the Kodak Blacks in the world, they gotta point the finger at somebody! They be literally hoping and praying for the next female c00n to show up to make their shyt look less bad. And there are some lost ass blk chicks on some bullshyt. Don't get me wrong, but men OF ALL RACES (except Asians cuz they on some other shyt) c00n harder.
So in the past it was black female attitude, or blk women ain't got no hair, or black women fat, or black women ghetto, or single moms or STDs or blk women undesirable.
But now the truth is coming out. It's 2017. shyt looking a lil different with black women and so they gotta switch it up. Now they literally trying to tell us what WE want. shyt is unreal.
Yo these gender war threads on The Coli have made me realize why some men refuse to argue/debate with women.
