It sounds more like the mother is talking by the way.
If he truly wanted to know why his sister doesn't love him, that's something she could easily explain. She would just have to tell him that when wrecking families, someone level of resentment is caused and unfortunately he got caught up in it all.
I doubt a 13 year old would be asking that question though. They're not 8, by 13 theu know enough about the world.
Bingo. Keep it real with the kid and face the shame you will receive head on.
Listen, this is what happens when people don’t have order in a society/community.
It fukking sucks, but yea. No one is obligated to acknowledge or assist relatives they don’t actually know or grew up with.
That is why as a rational adult you make WISE DECISIONS about who you procreate with. Because everyone won’t be accepting of kids born outside of the structure they were raised in.
It isn’t Bey’s job to treat a random child born from an affair like some planned child her mom birthed.
This shyt isn’t a free-for-all.
That’s WHY you have kids within wedlock. To avoid having a child raised in this embarrassment and dysfunction.
No, it’s not the child’s fault, but it isn’t Bey or Solange’s fault either.
The world isn’t a kind place.
It’s absolutely terrible seeing how things can play out when kids are born in such dysfunction. But it’s also terrible that some men can be reckless and expect family to act like it’s all good and clean up their mess. It’s one thing if we’re talking about a woman who has a career/money and can actually take care of the child, but slipped up. It’s another when you’re talking about a woman who can’t actually guide a child and the dysfunction becomes generational.
You can’t predict a man’s behavior, but you DEF can’t predict it when you are a mistress popping out babies for a married man.