Scott Larock
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“Monogamy is for broke men”
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Monogamy is for guys that only want to be with one woman, it doesn’t have to be anymore complicated than that.
- Nature Boy is broke and begging for donations but has 7 wives.
- Denzel is rich and has a wife.
Shes right but she's also wrong. She notes that
The truth is, polygyny intensifies economic inequality among men. It also creates a reserve of young, sexually frustrated men who, when faced with genetic obsolescence, are willing to do just about anything to get access to sex and money — from kidnapping and cattle raids, to joining guerrilla armies. Hence polygynous couplings are not only intensely unequal, they are innately more violent. Even today, polygyny is a key feature in all of the 20 most unstable countries on the Fragile States Index.
But for some reason she doesn't see that living in a violent world is worse for women who are physically weaker and are more likely to be raped or attacked than a man is. Women don't want a society were average joes cant get married and the separation of wealth from marriage means it is far more likely that women are able to choose their own partner, rather than be viewed as an asset that their family can sell off to the highest bidder. Societies with polygyny also don't tend to have spousal support or anything near the separation of assets that you see in western divorces. You might be "gold digging" but in the society that she talks about women just become another asset that can be disposed of or traded in, rather than an indispensable partner for life. Broke men definitely benefit from monogamy, but women do too, and to an even greater extent.
The truth is, polygyny intensifies economic inequality among men. It also creates a reserve of young, sexually frustrated men who, when faced with genetic obsolescence, are willing to do just about anything to get access to sex and money — from kidnapping and cattle raids, to joining guerrilla armies. Hence polygynous couplings are not only intensely unequal, they are innately more violent. Even today, polygyny is a key feature in all of the 20 most unstable countries on the Fragile States Index.
But for some reason she doesn't see that living in a violent world is worse for women who are physically weaker and are more likely to be raped or attacked than a man is. Women don't want a society were average joes cant get married and the separation of wealth from marriage means it is far more likely that women are able to choose their own partner, rather than be viewed as an asset that their family can sell off to the highest bidder. Societies with polygyny also don't tend to have spousal support or anything near the separation of assets that you see in western divorces. You might be "gold digging" but in the society that she talks about women just become another asset that can be disposed of or traded in, rather than an indispensable partner for life. Broke men definitely benefit from monogamy, but women do too, and to an even greater extent.
I tried to read it but then I realized I didn’t care enough to read excuses for deviant behavior. You all have fun
I feel like most people don’t even understand polygamy
They can barely take care of their own emotions while being single(actually a lot can’t) yet think they can handle the emotions and problems that would come with such a lifestyle
They can barely take care of their own emotions while being single(actually a lot can’t) yet think they can handle the emotions and problems that would come with such a lifestyle
richaveli83
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Plenty of broke ass dudes be having multiple women. 
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
She contradicts herself multiple times
Monogamy limits womens agency
Monogamy promotes social stability and opportunities
What exactly is she arguing? She mentions wealth inequality and then does nothing with that concept. This really just feels like hoe babble with a thesaurus and history book. She's not intellectually consistent.
In any case I do agree that the wealthiest and most successful men do hoard the women. 80% of women want less than 20% of men. This has been shown to happen again and again in online dating studies, and in qualitative research with surveys and focus groups.
If youre a man its becoming harder and harder to meet womens standards especially women whove been on social media a lot. Social media warps the mindset of people so they feel their lives must be exceptional at basically all times and has given people an insane level of entitlement. This is why some dudes are just checking out entirely. Nobody wants to be used as a meal ticket while a wonan is plotting for the high status man she really wants.
Monogamy limits womens agency
Monogamy promotes social stability and opportunities
What exactly is she arguing? She mentions wealth inequality and then does nothing with that concept. This really just feels like hoe babble with a thesaurus and history book. She's not intellectually consistent.
In any case I do agree that the wealthiest and most successful men do hoard the women. 80% of women want less than 20% of men. This has been shown to happen again and again in online dating studies, and in qualitative research with surveys and focus groups.
If youre a man its becoming harder and harder to meet womens standards especially women whove been on social media a lot. Social media warps the mindset of people so they feel their lives must be exceptional at basically all times and has given people an insane level of entitlement. This is why some dudes are just checking out entirely. Nobody wants to be used as a meal ticket while a wonan is plotting for the high status man she really wants.
Steel
Superstar
Not one lie was told. The only reason our society functions is because of monogamy. I didnt know this was controversial 
I got married while I was broke. But me and my wife came up together.
Youseenmywork
KING
The notion that a women is "doing me a favor" is some of the most narcissistic shyt I've ever heard. When a man enters marriage he give a lot more than what a women's is . He is really cutting his nature off and women have the upper hand when you marry them ...she can wake up one day after the kids have left the house and decide to divorce you. Now she can take what the courts allow her to take or she can be civil but it definitely favors women . Men have to remember divorce is a 50 BILLION dollar business a year .
BruhManFromTheFifthFlo
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Yeah put half truth, half hoe babble. She tried to take facts and curve them to basically put it as women are doing us a favor. These hoes too narcissistic to be the 4th wife of someone. They wanna feel special. They’ll be a side hoe cause they feel like they getting someone’s husband to cheat
Steel
Superstar
If you remove the feminism aspect. Everything mentioned she mentioned is true. Woman practice shameless hypergamy. They would rather be a the third wife of a boss than the first and only wife of a worker.
Youseenmywork
KING
This rare thoe especially in America. Most women want the car right off the showroom floor ....men are willing to put options in AFTER we buy. For the most part
