@MoshpitMazi they think they built like that when they not, it's internalized frustration.
They start talking like they can really handle it like that, then you break them down with the mouthpiece like you breaking weed on a Sunday morning and they fold like lawn chairs, crying talking about how much of an a$$hole you are because of something they started thinking they were doing damage.
I been a handful short term, and like most women, they start feeling themselves because they finally got a man and think they can be lite OD disrespectful with the mouth. Then you tell them about themselves and suddenly all that internalized frustration come out because you represent a man who hurt her or someone she identifies with from her childhood. It's mainly her father or men from her neighborhood, on the square it's culture.
Doesn't mean they have to be disrespectful, but there's something about pushing the boundaries trying to test men. I always thought they want to be hurt, you have to realize most women are damaged in one way or another when you get with them.
Either you have to soften yourself for her or she has to harden herself for you, if you are not going to soften up you are going to be in a bad situation. Box is not enough. And their fetish for black men is problematic because they want an R&B music-video-type relationship.