MenOfTheColi: How long into the relationship do you begin to pay for your gf's things?

[Ashley Banks]

<3

 

[RebelX]

Before the relationship starts

 

[Gold]

How many weeks, months, years until you're willing to or don't mind paying for stuff for her.

Ex. Replacing her phone if she broke it or if it was stolen.
Paying to get her car fixed (battery, oil, tire change)
Paying for a cd or something or going clothes shopping
Paying for hair
Food, dates, vacations
Putting money into her hobbies, activities, classes
Education
A puppy
A car
Apartment/house (for the both of you)

testing 123

 

[Splash]

Just noticed you didn't post the
You fell off @Giselle

 

[platinum f1a$k]

when I feel like

 

[Gus Money]

I think the OP is just joking but plenty of people think men are supposed to treat women as "equals" while still being expected to pay for things that an adult should pay for themselves.

Equality when it's convenient.

 

[Wild self]

lol he should be paying as soon as yall start dating

Every time?

That's why a lot of women become jumpoffs.

 

[blockburna420]

When she buy me some shoes usually

 

[Shadow King]

Is this a list of things I'd just pay for whenever she wants it? Or cover the expense if she happens to fall short? If it's the former, never.

Food/dates should be dutch or taking turns paying from the start. 6 months is a solid point to cover things if she's short.

Shopping, hobbies/activities, puppies are luxuries so I'm not doing that. And everybody has $700 phones now so she might be on her own with that

 

[Lord_nikon]

I can't put a timeline on these....

Phase 1 = Food , Dates, Paying for a cd

Phase 2 = clothes shopping Replacing her phone if she broke it or if it was stolen, Paying for hair. Paying to get her car fixed (ONLY !!!! battery, oil, tire change)

phase 3 =( marriage ) Paying to get her car fixed (battery, oil, tire change), Putting money into her hobbies, activities, classes, vacations, Education, A puppy, Apartment/house (for the both of you)


A car LMAO !!

 

[Ashley Banks]

Every time?

That's why a lot of women become jumpoffs.

uhhuh sure

 

[Wild self]

uhhuh sure

That is why most men ain't getting married in America anymore.

 

[mortuus est]

i like the idea of fully courting my lady

 

[Ashley Banks]

That is why most men ain't getting married in America anymore.

Suuuuure, that's the reason why.

 

[Wild self]

Suuuuure, that's the reason why.

Ignore the problems and lack accountability, brehettes.