MenOfTheColi: How did you know that you were in love?

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If this is your real life attitude, don't bother with love.

You one of them 'rather be right alone than happy together' people. Good luck with that you very friendly person you.

You don't know what type of person I am.
Djeezus @Phoenix_Knightly23 chill out.

Just because you are trying to figure out if you are in love, doesn't mean you get to decide how people describe how they knew.

'She saved my life.. and I know' wouldn't be good enough because you want HOW.

News flash: don't ask questions you don't like the answer to and NOBODY can tell you if you are in love or not except you.


So chill tf out. Putting salt in a cute thread that YOU created.
1. I started this thread just because I can. I am not trying to figure out if I am in love. So you can stop ASSuming. just like he did.

2.Your comprehension skills must be off just like his if you think those are the same questions. Every other person in here can read/see the difference.
This argument was over when he realised he was misunderstanding it and felt so shxtty and in his feelings about his poor comprehension skills that he tried to drag the argument to a whole 'nother thread.

You can take yours and leave my thread now as well. :smile:
 

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Love and lust are often confused.

I know when I love a woman by how I start to view other women. Once other women aren't catching my eye like that I know its love.


When I can picture a future together and growing old.

Once I mutual respect for feelings and the well being of one another is displayed.


:whew:
 

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Who starts a relationship without being in love?

'My kid was 1 year old before I realized my girl was pregnant'

:dwillhuh:

Love isn't something that just happens (for me, at least). I don't believe you can honestly love someone until you've been around them for a long time and you've seen different facets of their personality. So unless you're friends with a girl for long time before you get into a relationship, I don't see how you could start a relationship "in love." Lust is a different story though.
 
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I have another question guys!

Starting from the first time you met her, how long did it take for you to enter a relationsh and how long did it take for you to realize that your were/are in love with her?


We were in a relationship within a month. We just clicked on all angles.

Realized i loved her maybe 3-4 months in
 

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I have another question guys!

Starting from the first time you met her, how long did it take for you to enter a relationsh and how long did it take for you to realize that your were/are in love with her?

A month after we met we were in a relatiinship. About 10 months in I thought I was in love
 

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I have another question guys!

Starting from the first time you met her, how long did it take for you to enter a relationsh and how long did it take for you to realize that your were/are in love with her?


We were friends for about 2 months, dated for 5, relationship lasted over two years. I knew I loved her at about a year into the relationship. I've been with my main for almost 18 months and I'm coming up on love, maybe more than before.
 

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Glad she left yo' cheatin' ass.:pacspit:
:what:

1. We've been married for 10 years. I was young and dumb but been flying right ever since I put a ring on it.

2. You jumped to a hell of a conclusion given the limited info in my post. For all you know, I could've broken up with her.

3. Who hurt you? Share your woeful story :therethere:
 

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we was living together with in i wanna say first 2 or 3 months. I was in love with her early but really didn't know or understand that i actually fell until much later.
 

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I have another question guys!

Starting from the first time you met her, how long did it take for you to enter a relationsh and how long did it take for you to realize that your were/are in love with her?
:jbhmm: Started fukkin within 2 weeks... Relationship came about 1/2 months in... Realized I was falling in love about 4 months.. Let her meet my kids a few months in (I dont let chicks meet my kids unless its serious)... Got on my mode to other chicks, "You bad as hell but, YOU AINT HER" ... I still love that girl...
 

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:what:

1. We've been married for 10 years. I was young and dumb but been flying right ever since I put a ring on it.

2. You jumped to a hell of a conclusion given the limited info in my post. For all you know, I could've broken up with her.

3. Who hurt you? Share your woeful story :therethere:
You assume that I'm hurt because I hoped that a fellow woman did not tolerate a cheating males disrespect?

lol mkay. Typical for your kind.

I hope she was/is cheating as well then.

:jbhmm: Started fukkin within 2 weeks... Relationship came about 1/2 months in... Realized I was falling in love about 4 months.. Let her meet my kids a few months in (I dont let chicks meet my kids unless its serious)... Got on my mode to other chicks, "You bad as hell but, YOU AINT HER" ... I still love that girl...

That's pretty quick. You didn't know her before those 2 weeks?
How long did that relationship last and why did it end?

If I remember correctly, I think you were the poster who said you got cheated on twice? That was one of those times?
 

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You assume that I'm hurt because I hoped that a fellow woman did not tolerate a cheating males disrespect?

lol mkay. Typical for your kind.

I hope she was/is cheating as well then.



That's pretty quick. You didn't know her before those 2 weeks?
How long did that relationship last and why did it end?

If I remember correctly, I think you were the poster who said you got cheated on twice? That was one of those times?
1-We met at a bar long before, her friends birthday, we just never really talked or hung out... After 2 weeks of actually spending time together we was fukkin... We were together over 2 years... Her daughter called me her 2nd Dad... It ended because she gave me an ultimatum & I dont play that...

2-Might be, been cheated on before... They had it good, thought they could get away with it, Got dropped, Begged for for forgiveness... Im not sympathetic....
 

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I was once before, might be now.

You share and do everything with one another willingly. You find yourself comparing other women to her. She's the first person you tell about anything and the last person you want to disappoint. You make plans for the future and take action to make it happen. Your dreams are shared and you never feel the need to question motives or trust because you communicate easily and you meet problems as a team. The thought of not having her makes you sick.

Companionship is actually real, brehs. Don't let bitter betties on the coli keep you from believing it.
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Love is compromise. Love is having that initial list of reasons why you want to spend so much of your valuable, priceless time, on this earth, with that one person. Love is holding that list of reasons close to your heart so that, in the worst moments of your relationship, you can reference it when compromises must be made. Love is about looking into another person’s eyes like they are the greatest thing ever, and knowing that they feel the same way about you when they look back at you. Having that connection that no one and nothing can break. Love is about knowing that, in this cold world, there is one other person who has your back, who gets up in the morning and thinks about you, who goes through the motions of life just so they can spend more time with you. Love is knowing that there is another heart beating solely for you. Love is that list of reasons why. Love is compromise. 💗
 
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