MenOfTheColi: How did you know that you were in love?

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When all you think about is her throughout the day and not in a sexual way but actually relishing the moment when you're within each others presence again.

Simple physical interactions are intensely enjoyable...A slight caress, a hug, a kiss, etc is enough to snap you out of the gloomiest moods.

When you think about her and consider that when everything is accounted for that you would willingly give it up for her. Unfortunately, too many hearts grown too cold and love (romanticism) has died even though I personally think love is a dangerous thing to deal with.
 

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When i read the text to her ex saying she would always love him.

My stomach started flipping and my chest was heating up. It was at that moment that I knew I was in too deep.

It was my first love and I fell hard.


:mjcry: the worst way to find out.
I didn't realize I was in love with my husband until I found out he was having an affair. I couldn't eat, sleep, or think properly for a couple of days. I would vomit thinking of what he was doing to me, he's done to her. That gut crushing, heart speeding feeling was so overwhelming. I still randomly cry when I think about it but it's starting to hurt me less. I didn't realize I was so in love with him until I experienced all of that & still worked it out with him. This is my first love & I see why people say it's the hardest.
 

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That is the thing! I am NOT asking WHY did you love someone.

I clearly asked "HOW did you know YOU were IN LOVE with someone".

It is NOT the same thing.

My questions are asking what were your actions or thoughts that let you know you were IN love.

It's clear that some of you guys have a difficult time with reading and comprehension. That or you have never been in love.



It's clear that you have a difficult time with reading and comprehension. HOW did you know you were in love NOT WHY, but HOW. I asked about YOU and your thoughts and actions that let you know that you were in love. I did NOT ask about her. I did NOT ask why you loved her or anything like that.

Go back and read the question, then read the answers that I dapped if you still don't get it. It is not that difficult to understand.

Some of y'all act like y'all are slow.



Read my responses to the others above. I'm tired of repeating myself for you slow males on here. Or just stay out of this thread.




So you do not usually have unprotected sex and you knew you were in love with her bc you had unprotected sex with her is what you're saying?
How about you read(if you haven't already) the five love languages and then get back at me with a better response.
My lady is a nurse and she needs affection(touching) and she like this as well
Acts of service

Michelle's primary love language was what I call "acts of service." By acts of service, I mean doing things you know your spouse would like you to do. You seek to please her by serving her, to express your love for her by doing things for her.

Consider actions such as cooking a meal, setting a table, emptying the dishwasher, vacuuming, changing the baby's diaper, picking up a prescription, keeping the car in operating condition — they are all acts of service. They require thought, planning, time, effort and energy. If done with a positive spirit, they are indeed expressions of love.

A willingness to examine and change stereotypes is necessary in order to express love more effectively. Remember, there are no rewards for maintaining stereotypes, but there are tremendous benefits to meeting the emotional needs of your spouse. If your spouse's love language is acts of service, then "actions speak louder than words."
Once again you want some answer wrapped and packaged to YOUR liking..
Good Luck with that..
Love isn't one dimensional on some "When Harry met Sally" bullshyt.
But keep cooking..
 

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How about you read(if you haven't already) the five love languages and then get back at me with a better response.
My lady is a nurse and she needs affection(touching) and she like this as well
Acts of service

Michelle's primary love language was what I call "acts of service." By acts of service, I mean doing things you know your spouse would like you to do. You seek to please her by serving her, to express your love for her by doing things for her.

Consider actions such as cooking a meal, setting a table, emptying the dishwasher, vacuuming, changing the baby's diaper, picking up a prescription, keeping the car in operating condition — they are all acts of service. They require thought, planning, time, effort and energy. If done with a positive spirit, they are indeed expressions of love.

A willingness to examine and change stereotypes is necessary in order to express love more effectively. Remember, there are no rewards for maintaining stereotypes, but there are tremendous benefits to meeting the emotional needs of your spouse. If your spouse's love language is acts of service, then "actions speak louder than words."
Once again you want some answer wrapped and packaged to YOUR liking..
Good Luck with that..
Love isn't one dimensional on some "When Harry met Sally" bullshyt.
But keep cooking..
You are truely slow. Every other male in here understands the question in the op except you. You should really go back and read.

Short version
Me: How did you know that you were in love?
Everyone else: Logical answer
You: Seeing her in the kitchen cooking.
Me: I asked how did you know that you were in love. I did not ask what did she do for you that made you love her.
Everyone else: logical answer
You: That's the problem with women, they can't accept the truth. There are lots of things that she did that made me love her. You just don't like it.
Me: I didn't ask what made you love her. I asked HOW did you know you were in love with her. I didn' not ask about her actions, I asked about yours.
You: Read this book and come up with a better response. My gf likes affection and likes for me to do things for her. You're still wrong.

From your new post, If you are trying to say "I knew I was in love with her because I went out of my way to please her by doing things that I thought she would like me to do for her". Then that is all you needed to type.

You began by saying what she did for you and why you liked her which is NOT what I asked. Then you got upset and tried to argue bc you were wrong and misunderstood what I was asking even though I explained multiple times and everyone else understood the difference.

You should really sharpen your writing and reading comprehension skills. I can tell that they're not that good from the few posts you have in here.
 

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Im not sure honestly

I can actually count on my hand a few girls who have played a big role in my emotions or influenced me to some degree. And each three of them kind of played a different caricature of a modern woman. All of them smart, one was a girl with the appearance of a sweet honest quiet shy girl who ended up cheating on her boyfriend with me but I dont know

Another girl was a badass slut who is actually really successful and outplayed me and got me emotional

Another was a genuinely good hearted girl with a good heart with both brains and class

The last girl stuck by my side through any and everything. The girl who played me left me in the dirt when I went to her on some emotional shyt over some tragedy in my
life, and the first girl was just a fling that appeared to be more than it really was

I dont know what youd call intimate love but that last girl is the only person outside of my family and my own homies who I'd give every and anything for as I suppose return appreciation for every and anything shes done for me
 

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I don't know if I love her yet :ld: ...I knew she loved me when started giving me her check every two weeks to run the finances and gave me my threesomes :whew: My bytch was fully committed
 
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