MenOfTheColi: Do You Usually Pick The First Date, Or Do You Ask Her To Pick? & What Does It Mean?

[EpicStoryTeller]

Yea, I went through a couple pages and saw the same thing. These chicks don't seem to understand: As long as men do the asking and chasing, we only adapt to what women do and say.

Don't get mad at us when our approach isn't what you want. One girl wants us to plan it all, the next is going to shyt on ideas and complain. Maybe by the time I run into the next chick,
me asking if she wants any input might have her assume I am weak, when im merely making the fukking effort to include her opinion.

Again, don't listen to shyt women say. Just follow a plan, cause as evidenced by LSA girls, doing something they don't agree with makes you a fukkboy, when the chick before LITERALLY wanted
the exact opposite.

Damned if you do damned if you don't

 

[At30wecashout]

Damned if you do damned if you don't

Exactly why I didn't for 6 yearsGot tired of the expense, the wishy washy nature, the lack of payoff on a lot of dates (not so much sex...just SOMETHING).

I'm off that now, thoughSomebody out here cooler than the other side of the pillow.

 

[Mess World]

If I choose the first date it means I'm in control and more dominant , women like men to make decisions

If she picks than she's paying but I'll leave a tip

Sometimes women are independent and even if I pick we go Dutch

Most of the dates are at a bar or a picnic with wine and snacks

Nothing too expensive

 

[Blessings]

I said this a few time on here recently....most girls just want to fukk
Stop setting up dates...

 

[Taadow]

I don't "ask" them per se...

I tell her i'm going to go do _______ , and she can come if she wants. Or not. Whatever.

 

[iBrowse]

Here is the lsa thread that inspired this one. They are ridiculous sometimes. lol
Guys don't plan for dates anymore

In my opinion, it's best for the woman to pick the first date. You won't be taking me to your usual date spot that you to your last 12 dates to. & I'll be sure to have a good time even if I don't like you.

 

[iBrowse]

I don't "ask" them per se...

I tell her i'm going to go do _______ , and she can come if she wants. Or not. Whatever.

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

 

[BelieveBeOK]

I'm u̶s̶u̶a̶l̶l̶y̶ always paying for the first date, so I decide.


I will ask my date if she has a better idea/venue in mind but they never do. They're just happy to spend time with me, I guess

Spoiler

and to get a free meal too

 

[Giselle]

I said this a few time on here recently....most girls just want to fukk
Stop setting up dates...

And you are single, correct?

lol What's so funny?

 

[iBrowse]

lol What's so funny?

Almost everything you said .

 

[iBrowse]

@ @Ibeatpeoplekids_

 

[Giselle]

Almost everything you said .

How?

 

[At30wecashout]

That name!

 

[iBrowse]

How?

If you have to ask then you'll never get it .