Voice of Reason
Veteran
You don't own that person's body. You don't own that person's genitals. Those things existed before you, and they'll exist after you. You didn't create those things. The only thing you're entitled to, in a relationship, is the bond that you've put time and energy into forming and maintaining. But if we're talking about a marriage then that complicates things, obviously...
Are you a female LBGTQ or a post op tranny because you damn sure aren't a heterosexual male