"Men" who complain about women shyt-testing. Right or Wrong?

Should we adapt to the tests?


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I don't have time for it and won't accept it. You all can have women that do that. Things like this is why I believe there are very few women i can be compatible with because I hate being played with and tested.

I know boundaries need to be made clear but if I feel someone purposely playing with me to get a reaction and they keep doing it I'm out.
 

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Lets bush the notion that things gets better after marriage .
Marriage is good and its a great tool for building.. But if you're not ready, or simply don't see it, move on..

Brehs, please, don't get married to satisfy the woman youre with. Its not worth it . Even if she threatens to leave if you don't do it, let her go.. She can be the best thing that ever happened to you, but if you're not ready at that moment, the results will be worse..


Finally a man, that tells the truth
 

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Of course not :pachaha:

Most bw will have an image that you only fukk white women, and that you're soft and that is why you fukk white women.

Most tell on themselves with they actions..

Old black women when I had freeform hair would say shyt like

"I don't like your hair"

:mjlol:

I usually answered that with a "thank you:ehh" ..only way you can react is to not get mad.:manny:

Alot of the shyt be petty,immature testing and those broads I have no time for.

Facts.

I like all races of women(mainly black or mixed) but I constantly get the white women shyt:mjcry:

I randomly got accused by some broad of liking a white girl by some girl I know and it came out of nowhere :gucci:

I’ve tried changing the way I dress and shyt to adapt but it was making me miserable so instead I just turned up my true personality.


shyt tests can erode at your confidence if you arent naturally assertive and don’t understand them
 

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Lies... talk to anyone over 50 and you'll see women don't have an off-switch.. it doesn't stop till you die

It's funny n!ggaz rush to get married just to spend 10-40 years being constantly tested/berated/nagged

#GMB :ufdup:
No...im saying

Ive experienced this ..

If u come from a position of strength...all u have to do is maintain

I didnt say it stopped...just barely happened if u stay ontop of it.... like lifting weights

The more time u go without working out the more outta shape ull get...
 

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It's in a woman's nature. She gotta make sure that you are that nikka. this is nature taking its course. Making sure she is with a mf that can protect her and her offspring. Not a weak breh who gets flustered at the least sign of confrontation. Now if you handle your shyt from jumpstreet and let her know, then the "shyt tests" are few and far in between.
There u have it.

Also fellas, differentiate between a woman who is worth it and one whose not.


Theres a difference between a shyt test and a broad just being a dumb ass basic bytch.

Coincidentally if u check the dumb basic bytches they like it.
 

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What's up with this high school all corny cac Alpha male shyt...


If a woman shyt tests you...she's a stupid bytch...it's that simple...

If you tolerate shyt tests...you must be a thirsty motherfukker....

I don't tolerate games, shyt tests and all that....

My time is valuable...time is money....and if Ima fukk off some time...it ain't gonna be trying to figure out where a woman's head is at...I am grown....

Oddly enough, with that attitude ur passing all shyt tests regardless..

shyt test, testing boundaries, who cares whats its called..

If u respect urself and ur time, people will respect it too...
 

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Admittedly I got a babyface..been told I have a boyish charm, I like to be humorous so I for-sure get them tests :pachaha:

Especially when they're black, and double if they're older than me.

When you interact alot of you see the shyt and learn how to adjust...

Black,hispanic women will almost always make a negative comment on something you're wearing...most because they don't want to gas your ego up by saying something positive. :pachaha:
Or... you're Dusty AND they don't like you:laff:


The delusions...:russ::mjlol:
 

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fukk a shyt test and putting up with women and their bullshyt. If that's a "defeatist" attitude then so be it. You think women give rich nikkas or famous nikkas "shyt tests" ?? No.

And by the way, why are all the coli brehettes always mia in these "call women out on their bullshyt" threads?
 

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fukk a shyt test and putting up with women and their bullshyt. If that's a "defeatist" attitude then so be it. You think women give rich nikkas or famous nikkas "shyt tests" ?? No.

And by the way, why are all the coli brehettes always mia in these "call women out on their bullshyt" threads?

Lol cause they don't care
 

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Listen, if u dont wanna deal with shyt tests from a woman thats cool....hell if u give off the vibe u wont put up with it then they wont or atleast rarely...

But ur gonna get tested ur entire life...

Im not saying to put up with a million tests and bs games...thats actually failing a shyt test..

The man who cuts a woman off whose playing games or checks her and sets boundaries actually passes it...

Cuz ur gonna get “shyt tested” if u live in a bad neighborhood by the lil goons around ur way to see if ur soft or not, and if u are that might cost u ur life...

U get “shyt tested” in jail if u dont pop off when u first come thru...

U get “shyt tested” at work by employees to see where ur head is at or by ur boss to see if ur competent enough for the next level/promotion..

U can even get “shyt tested” by ur friends and family...

Passive men dont get far in life, u have to overcome some adversity....men are made..

Its up to u as a man to set boundaries, cuz ur gonna get shyt tested in every angle of life....and if u nip shyt in the bud u will minimize it but itll never go away...

U think bullies will continue to bully u if stand up for urself? They go for easy targets.....dont fail their first shyt test

Oddly enough, us as men shyt test women all the time and dont even know it, and if u dont ur a loser with no standards and deserve to pay child support for a kid thats not even urs (all the guys who say body counts/past dont matter im talking to u).....

If u cant handle that, keep yo ass in the house...
 
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