men need to learn from women how to break up

[Jalether]

Before most women break up with a guy, they already have a replacement ready to go. women mentally checkout of most relationship weeks/months in advance and she uses that time to scout and recruit the next guy before she bounces and make it official.

While some people think that method is "toxic", it can certainly help ease the pain of breakup instead of ending up alone and miserable.

I tried it with my last breakup and the transition was seamless and damn near pain free

The moment you feel the bond is breaking and the relationship may be heading for a cliff, start scouting for replacement chick but most men wanna work shyt out which almost always backfires.

this is your ex the whole time you were working to make the relationship work

 

[NobleDrewAli]

Fax

 

[BlackJesus]

Too true

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Just make sure you rob her on the way out

 

[BlackJesus]

Just make sure you rob her on the way out

You are spiteful my nikka

 

[Piff Perkins]

Do you really believe men don't do this - or that men weren't doing it first? Hell a lot of dudes mentally check out shortly after entering a relationship lmao.

I will say this though. Every time I've broken up with someone, a woman in my vicinity (classmate, coworker, neighbor, etc) somehow heard about it immediately and started pursuing me within days.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Instead most of us are in denial or even scared to break up

 

[The Fade]

My homie said just enjoy the ride and when it stops just get the fukk off

It’s worked out for me

 

[ORDER_66]

I don't even try being serious in a relationship because women emotionally are fickle. Sometimes not even worth investing your self. I've been there done that

 

[murksiderock]

Instead most of us are in denial or even scared to break up

That was me, I've learned my lesson now, though. Funny thing is I wasn't always like that, I've broken up with women before. I'm highly emotional though, probably to a fault, so the emotions of having children and being in the longest relationship I'd ever had simultaneously fukked with me something vicious...

 

[jay83]

My homie said just enjoy the ride and when it stops just get the fukk off

It’s worked out for me

good advice. Less likely to get attached as well.

 

[Silkk]

Thats not knowing how to take a break up though.


I’ve had chicks pop up on me, Try to fight me, etc. when I ended things with them

 

[Michael's Black Son]

You are spiteful my nikka

 

[BmoreGorilla]

That’s not always true. A lot of times they become “lesbians”

 

[goatmane]

Her home girls will be bringing her your replacement n1kka suggestions while they say hi to you