Men love more sincerely than women. Y’all agree or nah?

Who loves more sincerely, men or women?


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Women, naturally and generally, are more loving due to them being, more often than not, nurturers. A segment of women nowadays might be a little colder due to being in bad relationships, which gives them reason to not be as compassionate about relationships as they used to be. Men and women have two different perspectives when it comes to love.

Men believe in love only when it makes sense and leads to potentially beneficial (unlimited sex, money, etc.) results, whereas women, ever since they were little girls, believed in love romantically but also platonically; men rarely can love a woman from a platonic sense.

It's kinda funny that men are leading this poll when there was a thread, and many on here were discouraging others from showing and expressing emotions in front of their woman because it'd make them look like a “punk.” Well, I have news for you, love is to show emotions. You can't truly love someone if you're afraid to show emotions in front of them, women aren't afraid of letting it all out because it's genuine feelings.

As previously stated, men worry too much about perception, which is why I think overall, relationships aside and from a general perspective women are just more loving by nature.
 
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They’re not responding to “what men are attracted to”. They’re responding to the post calling them a liability when they have jobs are self sufficient in and out of relationships.

Your point is actually closer aligned to what the women in the comment section are making. If they are acting more and more “like men” then they aren’t seeking what the woman in the OP is suggesting.

Stop cherry picking my post to simp. If you gon @ me then come correct.

I started point blank with “THEIR MINDSET IS THE LIABILITY”. Which is the main point. I framed my position around MINDSET. It doesn’t matter what they “achieved”. Liability can mean more than money, material things and accomplishments. Which is what women and you seem to not understand.

It’s the equivalent of a man saying I’m rich so therefore I’m not a liability when he could be the worst person mentally to deal with. That’s a liability contrary to his “accomplishments”

Also, what good is a woman’s accomplishments if she’s not willing to share those accomplishments with her future spouse? That’s also a liability. If I’m spending all of the money in the household while she stacks bread she’s a liability regardless of her accomplishments.
 

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My man sounds like you have trouble keeping women.
You just gotta be good towards her, be romantic but not too much, and treat her nice.
Don't pay for anything like it sounds you do or she will just use you.
Trying to keep em has never been my thing. Even now with my lady. I love her but I tell her ass all the time dont you threaten me with a good time.
 
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They’re not responding to “what men are attracted to”. They’re responding to the post calling them a liability when they have jobs are self sufficient in and out of relationships.

Your point is actually closer aligned to what the women in the comment section are making. If they are acting more and more “like men” then they aren’t seeking what the woman in the OP is suggesting.
It doesn't matter, they are still liabilities, they want to be provided for no matter how much they make :unimpressed:
 

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A man that is truly in love, not in lust, or in "shyt this the best I can do:francis:", yes I would agree. But if we keeping it a buck those numbers are low. Every dude claiming, or even thinking, he love somebody doesnt actually love that person.
 
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if you are a lover, none of this matters. you doing it because you want to or it feels good for you to express those feelings, not because you get something tangible out of it from the other person or whatever.

me personally, i am a sucker for love :manny:
i also don't be needing shyt from anybody so a lot of those other factors are not really a consideration.

i don't think a lot of men fall into that category under her logic because i doubt they would be "sincerely" in love if it was a relationship with abstainence. that there is clearly a condition for a lot of them to get to the level of doing all the stuff she listed lol

tldr: you dont love me, you just love my doggystyle.
 
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Women are burdens but that doesn’t mean men love more sincerely. It isn’t really a gender thing.
 

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There's too many tangibles in this. I'm inclined to say a woman's love comes with prerequisites or a baseline, but how often have we seen a woman's husband die and she never dates or fukks anyone else. On the flip, I have seen women break up in their head long before the relationship is over. And vice versa I've seen some men dog a woman out for losing their looks or because a better option came about.

Both situations are about the utility one can provide; one is just about your ability to provide in some cases ostentatiously, for men it's about how good your genetics are to him.

I think love means different things for different people. I won't say someone doesn't love hard or was never in love when things go south, but the way they express it or the lack of it might not be outwardly the best way to show it.

Ain't nothing guaranteed, you just gotta hope you choose right.
 
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