Men are reacting to this video on why they stopped Cold Approaching for good

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- "Don't flirt with females. Don't compliment them Don't do anything just make your money and deal with people who deal with you."

- "Man! I told one woman she looked just fine with no makeup and her hair freshly washed that i would take her out just like that... she snapped on me. I'm NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU, AND YOU AREN'T PAYING FOR MY HAIR WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT IT?. WOW "

- "This is why I don't even talk to women I don't know. You can be kind and polite and she will make a big scene if she don't find you attractive."

- "She did a great job with her explanation. Chivalry is dead and women killed it."

- "That's why they say women are TERRIBLE COMMUNICATORS. THEY JUST LIKE TO TALK A LOT. there's a difference"



:francis: :mjlol: damn

As a Cold Approach breh I can't relate, but I can definitely empathize where they are coming from
 

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- "Don't flirt with females. Don't compliment them Don't do anything just make your money and deal with people who deal with you."

- "Man! I told one woman she looked just fine with no makeup and her hair freshly washed that i would take her out just like that... she snapped on me. I'm NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU, AND YOU AREN'T PAYING FOR MY HAIR WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT IT?. WOW "

- "This is why I don't even talk to women I don't know. You can be kind and polite and she will make a big scene if she don't find you attractive."

- "She did a great job with her explanation. Chivalry is dead and women killed it."

- "That's why they say women are TERRIBLE COMMUNICATORS. THEY JUST LIKE TO TALK A LOT. there's a difference"



:francis: :mjlol: damn

As a Cold Approach breh I can't relate, but I can definitely empathize where they are coming from


Are those comments really real though? You can approach a hood bytch and she'll love the compliment.
 

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You have no previous rapport with a cold approach to know hey I can get a lil risque, she's cool with it
and yes attractiveness can sometimes be the differentiator
Keep it simple
 

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It’s twofold.

Men are not honest about being ugly. Ugly men more or less knew their place and knew what women they were qualified for.

At the same time women think because a 8, 9 or 10 man will smash it means that average and below average men are not worthy. Back in the day women knew which men were at their level more or less.
 

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It’s twofold.

Men are not honest about being ugly. Ugly men more or less knew their place and knew what women they were qualified for.

At the same time women think because a 8, 9 or 10 man will smash it means that average and below average men are not worthy. Back in the day women knew which men were at their level more or less.
nikkas is scared. Ugly nikkas fucck bad biitches all the time. They are resilient. Men today are incredibly weak and can't handle hardship. nikkas are too entitled. Women too for that matter.
 

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Sounds like incel babble. However, cold approaach just isn’t efficient

She can like you….But have a bf. She can like you…but have a kid. And that wouldn’t come up til later

Plus you really gotta put yourself out there be awkward, in front of other people, etc. Just to be treated like it’s a pleasure for her to talk to you.

With online dating, there is no confusion: she is looking for a man bc she’s on the app, and she finds you attractive bc yall matched. That’s undeniable and you confirm it immediately. Also the new MO is bytches hate talking on apps at all and just want you to literally message them ‘let’s go out’ and they down.

So yea I’ll cold approaches she’s really fine. But anything avg I can get online it ain’t worth it.
 

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Sounds like incel babble. However, cold approaach just isn’t efficient

A cold approach is nothing but being sociable, except your endgame is to date or have sex. Talking to people, particularly strangers is a social skill. If your an introvert and aren't adept at talking to people, particularly strangers just say that.

She can like you….But have a bf. She can like you…but have a kid. And that wouldn’t come up til later

That has nothing to do with anything people cheat all the time. The dude cold approaching can have a wife and kids, 6 other girlfriends he's done the same to on the side.

Plus you really gotta put yourself out there be awkward, in front of other people, etc. Just to be treated like it’s a pleasure for her to talk to you.

Once again social skills. It's a skill. Something you develop and work on. You can start a conversation with a stranger at Chipotle and about what they're getting then evolve into what their hobbies are, what they do for work, where they work at or went to college, etc. That's pretty much how you make friends and acquaintances.

With online dating, there is no confusion: she is looking for a man bc she’s on the app, and she finds you attractive bc yall matched. That’s undeniable and you confirm it immediately. Also the new MO is bytches hate talking on apps at all and just want you to literally message them ‘let’s go out’ and they down.

Only difference between online and real life is, online if whatever you say to her isn't interesting she can just leave you on read or block you. In real life people will engage in the awkward conversation then once it's over be lie "that guy is a fukking weirdo"

You ain't bagging women online with "hey" "hi" "hello".

As far as your going to get with an online date is an actual date where you are finally face to face then you realize you have no conversation or social skills and are once again awkward. Plus these new age males are lazy, they aren't leaders. They don't direct conversations. Yeah, women like to talk. Women like to talk! And these weirdos be having these women with nothing else to say but "ok" "yeah" "oh, that's cool" "sometimes".
 
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