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GOT TOO MANY HOMIES IN THEIR 40'S TALKING ABOUT PLAYSTATION, X BOX AND GOING OUT TO THE CLUBS TO TRY TO "FIND" WOMEN. SAYING TO ME THAT THEY AIN'T FOUND THE RIGHT ONE YET, BUT WHEN TEHY DO FIND HER THEY WILL ALREADY HAVE A HOUSE, CARS, BIKES, PETS AND EVERYTHING ELSE AND SHE "BETTER COME CORRECT".

NEEDLESS TO SAY, THEY ARE STILL SEARCHING IN BETWEEN SLEEPING IN AND WATCHING NETFLIX,PLAYING VIDEO GAMES AND shyt.

GET A NUMBER, GO OUT MAYBE ONCE THEN BE ON TO THE NEXT, SEARCHING.

I TELL THEM RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT AND NURTURED, THEY DON'T JUST FALL OUT THE SKY. NI99AS GONNA BE 50 SOON AND STILL "SEARCHING".
@Sccit i think this guy is trying to steal your style:lolbron:
 

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Ehhhh I'm in Cali so I wouldn't say across my location but this year I'm looking at 50-70K depending on how good the getting is during holiday season. The drawback is living with my folks. Since I haven't finished school I see no point in moving out until I transfer away which I'll do at the top of the year. And I can get women, I'm like a 6.5 approaching 7 with steadily improving physique (need more mass rn about 5'8''-5'9'' 150-155 lbs aiming for 170-175 lbs) but they're 5s, I don't entertain anything below a 5 and I refuse to put in palpable effort to bang 5s. In terms of personality that's what I can't find. I've said on here before for me personally sex without intimacy is a waste of time unless you're fukking a 7+. That in between fukk with a woman you don't really like as a person and aren't that attractive to is the exact type of half stepping I try to avoid in life in general.

So to answer your question I guess moreso the women I want, I'd take 5s/plain janes if they gave it up easy, and I'd do mild effort for 6s. The way I've always seen it is I''m only doing work to get a woman who's above my playing rank. If we're on the same level we should simply screen for compatibility/desire, but we have nothing to prove to each other.


There aren't any women out here trying to make it just like you? That should be common ground amongst upward mobile young people.. I don't understand how its so fcked up out here that men and women can't come together and honestly attempt to make it through this shyt as a unit..


Something is totally wrong with society..
 

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There aren't any women out here trying to make it just like you? That should be common ground amongst upward mobile young people.. I don't understand how its so fcked up out here that men and women can't come together and honestly attempt to make it through this shyt as a unit..


Something is totally wrong with society..

There are for sure, they still want elite men either in looks finances or both. The level headed ones are already taken, and I'm like how? when? Remember I'm not competing with men my age alone. There are sugar daddies and simps who will give money just for a woman's time no sex, etc. It makes things not worth the effort hence men quitting. I could come back at 30 and crush the buildings with the girls that are 12-18 rn by then they'll be 18-24 but at that point I wont care to, shyt I don't care to now. There are more important things like building my future. Also I don't like dating younger. People my age are kinda shallow. I can only imagine what people born into smart phones are like.
 
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There aren't any women out here trying to make it just like you? That should be common ground amongst upward mobile young people.. I don't understand how its so fcked up out here that men and women can't come together and honestly attempt to make it through this shyt as a unit..


Something is totally wrong with society..
Yes women are saying holla at them when you get on. not on your way up.
 

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No one will want to address it but black women being the most single demographic more or less proves black women don't take dating/marriage having families seriously until it's too late and several posters have already said this in numerous threads only to be called women haters, but Meg, Cardi, etc. and that imagery, messaging, etc. has no effect and yadda yadda. The older I get the more I understand dating out. For me if I can't get a level headed black woman I'll be alone (which I probably will be alone statistically), but I really see why dudes go to Latinas, etc. I don't trust cacs so pawging is still scust for me (seriously dating a white woman), but those demographics of women are more serious about settling down, and the stats prove it.

EDIT: It hit me rn while looking at the homepage the argument above is perfectly surmised by difference between Lizzo and Adele.

One lost weight, became conventionally desirable and landed a successful black man in Rich Paul

The other is Lizzo
Damn
 

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Yep, know alot of dudes who cant get laid or get attention like I do, yet ironically get into more long term relationships than I do.

Relationship doesnt really mean "attractive". Its a different...thing.

Right. People are saying 80% of women want 20% of men but 20% of men aren’t interested in 80% of women. They are also interested in the top 20% of available attractive women but may date 40% out of whoever is available. This leaves a lot of people still getting into relationships. Getting a lot of attention is not really necessary. People still find each other. The major problem being showcased in the OP is finances.
 

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OP did MJ numbers with this thread

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