you know how many nikkas running around here right now with unplanned children they didn't want making monthly payments for them? as obvious as this is its something in the moment people don't think about or don't care about till shyt hits the fan.
Its been taught since middle school sex health ed classes that unprotected sex will cause pregnancy/stds/hiv. Now not caring about the consequences is the issue and obviously there are men who don't care and do it anyway. Do they deserve what they get? Yes they do.
Ain't nothing wrong with a woman telling him to step up and help care for the kid either, he had a hand in making it, he should help raise it. If he doesn't want to raise a child with an undesirable broad for the next 20+yrs then he shouldn't have unprotected sex and go around shooting up in random chicks.