melyssa ford at the age of 36 still not married

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all this nice and everything. i mean a nice long paragraph.
but as always, do you know anything about melyssa personally other than from interviews?
i know nothing about her, i'm not defending her, but these paragraphs you typing....you would think you know her personally or something

you gotta just kevm3 cook my nikka...

Just let that man cook....
 

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look at kenya moore and sanna lathan black women who are 41 and 42 years-old and probably had alot of decent everyday dudes who approach them but u know that's not a good luck for there appearances to the public.

That's black people problem... we so conscious of what others think and how others would think if we had somebody not up to there satisfaction..

Pretty much. Women hardly ever marry down, especially a man they perceive to be significantly below their level. If they DO date down, which is the case with Oprah, since she pretty much is forced to due to her high status, she won't marry the guy. She's kept that Steadman dude around for the longest, but never married him.

That's why women rarely lose at the marriage game, because more often than not, they refuse to 'marry' men significantly below their status. I didn't say sleep with a guy below her financial status, I said marry. If you have sufficient 'thug appeal' coupled with game, these women will mess with you. They won't necessarily marry this thug or dude with supergame, but they will actually take the money from their husband and give it to him.
 

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And she wont give a regular guy a chance so its a wrap

Your right, she should date a slightly overweight, bald, in debt nikka living in a one bedroom apartment pushing a 2004 Kia sorento with 130k miles on it. Maybe then shed find love.
 
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Pretty much. Melyssa Ford can still call the shots with mid level men, but she's not willing to settle for them. The kind of men that she wants to settle with, she also expects to be able to call shots with, but they have tons of other options available to them. These high class men are essentially doing the same thing to her that she is able to do with other men. If she doesn't get down with their demands, there is some other fine young thing just as pretty that's willing to get in line.

These really fine women grow up their whole lives with men kissing their behinds and catering to them and the only thing they have to do is show up and look pretty. Thus, they have the life belief that as long as they look pretty, they can have whatever they want from a man. They never learn how to listen to a man or get down for him because they never had a need to. They got anything they wanted from just about every man they've come across... that is until they graduated into the big leagues.

She's the type of woman that will not accept an everyday man. She will want to hold down one of those rich ballers or moneyed men. Unfortunately for her, unlike most of the men that kissed her behind, these ballers have options. They have several other women chasing them that is as pretty if not better.

What's interesting is that it's not always these super dimed out women that are the most dangerous for the ballers. Those women are so pretty and so catered and pampered to that a lot of them never really had to develop a whole lot of manipulative ability. Thus, they do not have nearly the acting skills of some of these less pretty women.Think about pilar and deion. Pilar was a very gorgeous woman, but when it came down for them to part ways, she didn't really show a high level of savvy.

Some of the most dangerous women to these ballers are usually the 8s who know how to play miss sweet or momma number 2... who had to develop a whole lot of manipulative ability to notice and keep one of these ballers. They are the ones who grew up pretty enough to catch guy's attentions, but they never were catered to to the extent of the superfine woman. Thus, they had to use their mind to hook a man. These women know how to shift their persona's around to make a man really pay attention to them. They know how to become the sweetest girl a man has ever seen and come across as willing to take care of the man and down for him no matter what. They know how to stroke a man's ego. Think of Shaunie with Shaq. She isn't the most gorgeous woman out there, but she is pretty enough and in those interviews, it always seemed like she was the one taking care of Shaq. She knew how to play her role until he trusted her to manage the money and started stashing on the fellow. She pretty much also had the saavy to parlay her interactions with Shaq into something of her own.

:dwillhuh: Breh, do you need donations for that book of yours?
 

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anybody remember the video of her in Sisqo's room back when he was hot :pachaha:

it used to be on YT years ago, but pretty much it was her and I think Gloria Velez was bout to get a 3some poppin in Sisqo's hotel suite....ish was hilarious and I was hating :sadbron:
 

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I don't know the woman personally, so I don't really have much insight in to Ms. Ford's decision. All I know is, I have been around a lot of females in my lifetimes and I have never met one who, in her heart of hearts, doesn't want to be a bride . They might SAY they never want to get married, but that is usually the result of bad experiences with men, and even then they hold on to hope that they'll one day find "the right guy". Growing up men might fantasize about being the head of the household and playing sports with their sons. I do think about marriage a lot but the wedding is unimportant to me. A lot of women's fantasies surround the wedding itself, the marriage is just an afterthought :ld:
 

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Nah my homie peeped her at 106 n park a couple years back. Ya'll remember that show I want to work for Diddy with the black dude that kinda resembled kill a cam won? He was wit that nikka workin and they bumped into her. She knows that dude cause of course she knows Diddy so they all chopped it up for a minute.

She left and my homie asked like yo...man did we eat something or do you think she ate something, cause for real when she was talkin it was pleasant. Dude was like yea she's got halitosis...everyone knows about it but it is what it is :manny:
 

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anybody remember the video of her in Sisqo's room back when he was hot :pachaha:

it used to be on YT years ago, but pretty much it was her and I think Gloria Velez was bout to get a 3some poppin in Sisqo's hotel suite....ish was hilarious and I was hating :sadbron:

Yep, that's why I would always laugh when she tried to play some goodie goodie girl in interviews and talked about how she would date a construction worker. You know damn well Sisqo fukked her and Gloria Velez at the same time. That nikka won for that one. :whew:
 
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