Okay this is how it usually works with me if I'm watching wrestling around others. If you fukking with some hardcore strongstyle 40 min Tokyo Domer, they are gonna watch but ultimately decide it's barbaric and why would you do it. Like a shock and awe I watched it once dont need to see that gain. The number of times people have seen sick bumps, landing on their neck and just being turned off by it.
I would suggest going with a WWF/E match, you need the big time production, need the big fan reactions. You want wrestlers with characters and charisma, and able to work. Would stay from women's match at first, as lots of them work too soft. You can get her after with the "and the chicks do this too you know?"
Good luck finding one that will stan, she will most likely settle into watching a match here and there with you if she not doing nothing, but watching wrestling is almost always a "guy time" sports type thing where she'll just let you be to vibe with it yourself.