Honestly breh the best case scenario is a woman who can tolerate wrestling but isn't a fan the way we all are. I know all the girls Ive ever interacted with at say the local indy shows, while nice and all, were not for me.
My wife will sit on the couch on her phone during Raw and act like she ain't paying attention, only to ask why Bayley isn't back from her injury yet
As for matches, I'd say some American-ized lucha might be good based on my limited sample size of market research. Try some Rey Jr vs. Juvy or Psychosis stuff. Maybe Eddy vs. Rey at Halloween Havoc 97.