Married brehs..Wifey told me its 11 racks to tie the knot.

[JasonSJackson]

A real woman would realize that 11 gs for one day of festivities when her man doesn't have it like that is a waste of resources. That real woman would be cool with a court wedding (for the time being) and a nice trip or a tangible gift with that 7 grand u have allotted for the wedding. U can always have that dream wedding down the road when ur money is in a better space.....not these chickenheads tho, those dummies would rather her fiance take out loans, overspend, etc to have a wedding that will make others awe at the niceness of it.

I got a cousin who spent 80gs on a dream wedding a few years ago. Yo is still making payments on that shyt smh

Dog, take this as a warning sign of the type of chick u r about to wife. Do u really want to wife a broad with this type of rationale?

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

With ring and wedding, it cost me 5 G's for the ring and the wedding which wasnt even all out her dad spent 5/6G's. We werent planned on getting married so fast we wanted to save, but her dad was saying it looks better if were married before our daughter was born, he spent the money and stressed so i was

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

But it 's 5 racks to have her whacked
It's cheaper to sleep her

 

[newworldafro]

uhhhh....... what's the name of that website ...........................................................................................................









................................. http://www.kickstarter.com/

 

[opulence]

So what ended up happening?


Maybe I'm weird but I don't want an expensive wedding. .I kinda just want to exchange vows somewhere exclusive. ..but I do want to honey moon in the Maldives. ...

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Im putting 11k into a house. Too much tv for friends.

 

[flusterose]

i don't know ANYBODY who got married and the wife's family paid for it. and i know first hand. i was a wedding photographer/videographer at one time....i did about 50 weddings and ALL of them were paid for by the groom or the groom and bride together. never the brides parents.

in ALL the weddings ive been too/participated in, the bride's family pays for it. For me its a given my parents are paying for it.

 

[Real N Quotes]

We been engaged for a minute. (3 years )I been holding out as long as I could, but I feel the time is now.I let her know to get me a total and we would take it from there.She comes home today and tell me 11 and that's not with the rings,clothes and honeymoon.



We trying to do this within the next year.Either before Nov/12 or early April/13.

11 got a nikka like I told her 7 at the most She was like

We been down for almost 9 years,we got 2 kids and thinking about having another.I want to do it,but 11 racks just to feed a gang of people really ain't whats popping.

Sohh anyone got some cost cutting ideas for ya boy?

Go to the court house and then have a party...no mor than 5k

 

[flusterose]

i would really love to tie the knot in Vegas but he refuses.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Ring was $1K, destination wedding was free after the cash gifts, all we paid for was the honeymoon which was worth every dollar

Theres no paperwork filed breh, I dunno if shes the one dunn dunn, she throwin out numbers for the wedding, she prob got a number for alimony

 

[Savior]

My wedding was recently cost about 15k total.....unfortunately everything wedding related costs a ton of money ain't no way around it. But I paid for only about half myself and got 13k back in gift money so I came out positive . Don't invite no cheap niccas to your wedding and you'll be good long as you don't overdo it....say no kids on the invite either unless its close relatives I wasn't having no damn kids eating for free outta my pocket

 

[dontreadthis]

didn't read the whole thread but is it not customary for the wedded woman and her family to be the one's responsible for paying for the wedding stuff? have I been told wrong? antiquated??