Married and Divorced twice before 30.

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General Mills said:
The wedding plans had to have been set in motion months ago. Her and her sisters SPRANG into action brehs and brehettes. :wow: Before I could blink they had the reception hall picked out, band, colors, cake ordered, wedding gown, church rented out, limo, etc. . I was :dwillhuh:. She must have had some marriage fund already in place. . Other than the rings I am dont think I paid for anything. .

The closer we got to the date the more nervous I got. With my first marriage there was no hesitation. . When there should have been. With this one I was scared as fukk. There was something I could not put my finger on. . :sadcam:. I told my dad. He said. . Its just the wedding jitters son.:yeshrug: I love my dad. . But he has never given me good advice on women. :francis:.

Its the wedding day and I am so NERVOUS I wanted to throw up. :gag: I kept telling myself that she has given me zero reason to trip and I am acting like a bytch for no reason. :sadcam: Cant let my past experience hold me back from love. I knew instictively she was down for me. That was not the problem at all. I knew she would not rob me, or cheat, etc. . She did not run the streets. . She was a good girl.

So I stood in front of her crooked pastor and said I DO. As SOON as I said it I regretted it. :wow:. But I SUCKED it up and chalked it up to having cold feet. :snoop: I looked at her and knew I loved her. I cared for her and decided I am going to give this my best shot. . . . . Now I had an idea that we should go to Jamaica or the Virgin Islands for our honeymoon. She was adamant about not going anywhere out of Jax ( first warning sign ) So we got a nice hotel in Jax Beach on the water for a week.

Our first night she looks at me like :sas2:. . I am ready to start this baby. :sas1:

I was :whoa:. I told her lets wait on all that. . She was truly hurt. . I could see it but she tried to hide it. . I was being honest and was not exactly sure I was ready yet. :lupe: She told me well I did not take the pill sooooooooooooooooo. . .. :youngsabo:

I was like. . No worries and pulled out a condom and she was :merchant:
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Bruh that last couple of lines got me fukking rolling. That :merchant: smiley is so under rated
 
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General Mills said:
No homo but I was tearing up writing it. Never actually wrote this story out let alone told many people about it. :mjcry: She did not deserve that shyt AT ALL. :mjcry:
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What a horrible set of tragedies to fall on a good-hearted person. Her sister needs her ass horse-whipped for what she did. How do you look at your own sister, who has been nearly beaten to death, and see a damn payday? How do you try to push your mentally diminished sister into a relationship with her ex-husband so you don't have to take care of her anymore? Ugh. All that aside, you are a really stand-up person with a big heart, a good soul, and shining character. To keep going along with her confusion over the two of you still being married just to make her happy? :to: I think I need to go lay down.
 
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I learned plenty from both marriages. .

#1. Warning signs!! Not saying all single moms are like that. . I have dated some since. . .But the old adage. . Meet a chick in a bar. . . Also she taught me to be more cold. I was all in with her soon as we met. And she was with it. . But any time we had to be apart she did her thing. :yeshrug: And I was the sucker for love. .


#2. Speak my mind! Listen to my own self. I knew I was unhappy but ate that shyt until I was literally sick. Also. . She was a wonderful woman. . But I never should have married her. :mjcry: I should have trusted my own instincts.



I still make hella missteps. . But I am so much more aware. . Sad it took me this long. But it is ok. :ehh: . I follow my brehs in GMB cause I DID Get Married Brehs. Twice. . .

And I am just being honest. . I do not see the true benefit in getting married anymore. :wow:. . . . And my parents are still going strong. .Which I realize is rare as fukkkkk. They both got married at 18. And they are now 59. And I love what they have. My personal thinking is with social media the way it is. .And society.. . . It is not impossible. . But it is damn tough to have a healthy marriage that will last till the end. :mjcry:
 
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Soooo. . . We were at a stalemate. . I went from thinking it was a misunderstanding because I did not state my intentions clearly in the beginning. . To she just does not care if I am happy for real.:dwillhuh: I told her. . . Look. We are not 80 years old. We are still young. Lets do shyt together. She said ok.. .Lets go out of town next weekend. I was :blessed: I started rambling off spots. . Other than going home for xmas I had been NOWHERE in a YEAR! Not even out to dinner! :wtb:

She said I got this. :jawalrus: Don't you worry. Let me plan it. I was so happy! I say when she says next sat and sunday. :blessed::blessed::blessed::blessed:

We get on the road the next weekend. . I am geeked :lolbron: She has me drive of course. . ( She hated driving ) She is just giving directions. . She has Kirk Franklin bumping and she is :stylin: in her seat. After driving for almost 2 hours. . We pull up to a . . .

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A tent revival. :why: Her church's home church is in Gainesville. . They were having a holy ghost tent revival. :snoop: I love God yall. . But I was so :pacspit: I could not get into the sprit at all. . They wanted me to get baptized with them. . I was like NO. :shaq2: I acted a ass the whole two days. Not really acting up. . But not speaking and not trying to socialize AT ALL. Meanwhile she acted like it was not a big deal. People where whispering cause I was literally sitting there during the revival like :martin:. At one point Prophet Mitchell came over and laid hands on me. Most people close their eyes and pray with him and all. I am looking him dead in his eye:birdman:. . He :whoa: and moved on to the next sucker.

Me and her NEVER raised our voices. Just not part of either of our natures. But we had some heated conversations in regular tones the whole way home. . At this point I was truly getting disgusted.
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