Married and Divorced twice before 30.
- Thread starter General Mills
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Oh myYup. I told her everytime she tried me. She would yell at her and shyt. .But she was already a black girl lost. . She had her first kid at 14.
Three months ago I was leaving library. . I hear somebody yelling. DADDY! DADDYYYY! I am thinking its for someone else. . And the voice sounded real country ignorant. Daddy General! I whip aroundWho is this grown woman calling me daddy?? It was the 12 year old. . She looked old as fukk and worn the fukk out. She had some kids with her. 5 to be exact. Talkinbout here are your grandkids.
I give her a fake number. . Hope to never run into that again.
So I am going to work every day. . Then picked up a part time job at a convenience store too. Ended up getting hired by Sony. They had a plant where they made big screen tv;s. Only thing is I was not going to start for another month. .But I would be making good money.
I told her . . Look. I need to pay off that apartment, that truck, and my credit card that I maxed out. . Plus I want to give my parents some money as soon as I can. . They are losing out giving us this house for free. She said she understood but she didn't.
Meanwhile. . .Her youngest daughter says to me one day that Steven called her. .I am like who is Steven?She said her brother.
This chick had ANOTHER KID!!!
When I asked her she said yeah her son Steven. . . . . . I was heated. . HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU HAVE?? She said 4. .
He lives with his dad in FLA. I was just numb at this point.What the fukk have I got myself into. Meanwhile she is still acting bytchy cause we cannot go out and get beers and shyt. I am at my wits end. . Come home and the house is not clean. Just dumb shyt.
Come home from work and she tells me that her daughter ( 12 year old ) got in some trouble back in Jax . She had to go home real fast. . I say ok. . But look. . I got enough money to send you one way on greyhound. .I will have the money for your ticket back home next week when I get paid. So when you get down there give me the number where your going to be at and I when your ready to come back. I will buy the ticket. Her girls were staying with me and my parents and grandparents will watch them while I am at work.
I never laid eyes on her again until last year.
Drew Wonder
Superstar
Dang, General Mills' mom is the real MVP 
This was early 2000's She had no cell. The numbers she gave me for her peoples in FLA were all disconnected. She called me from the bus station when she got to Jax. That was the last I heard from her.Her kids NEVER asked about her. . What 7 and 5 year old does not ask for their mother??
They just blended in with our fam. The 7 year old ended up moving in with my mom and dad. They were also taking care of my cousin Princess who was the same age. So they became best friends and went to the same school. My grandparents on my dads side fell in love with the youngest daughter. . They were from GA and loved her accent. So she spent lots of time over there. . Meanwhile I am going crazy. . Then as I usually do with L's. . I just accepted it and moved on. Got a lawyer. Had papers drew up. . But did not know where the fukk she was!
After 6 months Anya's grandma who basically raised her got in contact with us. They wanted her back and bought her a plane ticket.. Two months later my parents had a vacay planned to Disney in Orlando with my cousin and the 7 year old girl. They drove down to FLA. . Took the girls to Disney. . Then on the way back. . And I have no idea how they did it. .THEY FOUND MY HER!My mom said they pulled up to some dusty projects and she was coming out of a apt with some dude. They were dressed to go to a club. . My moms said here is your daughter.
Then they got in the whip and left.
In her daughters bag was a copy of the divorce papers. . Moms to the rescue.She signed it and that was that. Damn near two years to the day. Last year she called my mom. My parents number has never changed. .Said she was looking for me. . Amazingly I had never ran into her since being back down here. So I called her. .She wanted to get the divorce papers cause she is getting married again .She did not know how to get them from PA. So we met up. She apologized and said she was young and dumb. . . SHE LOOKES ROUGH AS fukkK. She legit has two tear drops under her right eye. . I asked her. .
Did you kill two brehs? She said naw. .One was for her youngest sister who died and the other for her mom.
I am like. . You tatted your face tho???She says its just for money. Its a African dude who wants to be a US. Citizen. I deleted her number and blocked her.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Yup. I told her everytime she tried me. She would yell at her and shyt. .But she was already a black girl lost. . She had her first kid at 14.
Three months ago I was leaving library. . I hear somebody yelling. DADDY! DADDYYYY! I am thinking its for someone else. . And the voice sounded real country ignorant. Daddy General! I whip around
That is really sad. Sadly there are black boys and girls that get molested at a young age. I am sure that there was a lot animosity towards her mother, because a mother is supposed to teach her daughter how to grow into a lady and also protect her. I am willing to bet that one of the men that mother had around (friend, boyfriend, or whatever) molested her at a young age. The mother should have done more than just scream at her. That is why I said that she probably viewed her mother as competition and saw it as winning if she stole you away from the mother. At 12 years old though? SMH.....
...Sadly that is not the first time I have seen some crap like that. Sadly a good number of young black girls are hypersexualized , exposed to the wrong stuff, and grow up too fast.DirtyMoney
Banned
Yeah i thought his mum & dad loved the lil brevet.. sad to put her back in that environment.I wouldn't have gave the kids back. fukk that. I would have went to court. They probably was likewhen the grandma caalled
General Mills
More often than not I tend to take that L.
When I did talk to her before I blocked and deleted her. . I got a update on the kids. .The oldest as you know I ran into. She has multiple kids by different dudes. Looks old as fukk. .Looks wacker than her moms. The middle girl is a dyke. Saw pics of her and she is dusty as fukk. Like she smokes and smells like black n milds. Dusty ass dreads. The son Steven is in Prison. Doing 5 years. The youngest moved to Cali. She straight up disappeared . She has no idea where she is. 
When I did talk to her before I blocked and deleted her. . I got a update on the kids. .The oldest as you know I ran into. She has multiple kids by different dudes. Looks old as fukk. .Looks wacker than her moms. The middle girl is a dyke. Saw pics of her and she is dusty as fukk. Like she smokes and smells like black n milds. Dusty ass dreads. The son Steven is in Prison. Doing 5 years. The youngest moved to Cali. She straight up disappeared . She has no idea where she is.
Damn I Wana see this chick lol
When I did talk to her before I blocked and deleted her. . I got a update on the kids. .The oldest as you know I ran into. She has multiple kids by different dudes. Looks old as fukk. .Looks wacker than her moms. The middle girl is a dyke. Saw pics of her and she is dusty as fukk. Like she smokes and smells like black n milds. Dusty ass dreads. The son Steven is in Prison. Doing 5 years. The youngest moved to Cali. She straight up disappeared . She has no idea where she is.
damn breh
damn smh
So sadWhen I did talk to her before I blocked and deleted her. . I got a update on the kids. .The oldest as you know I ran into. She has multiple kids by different dudes. Looks old as fukk. .Looks wacker than her moms. The middle girl is a dyke. Saw pics of her and she is dusty as fukk. Like she smokes and smells like black n milds. Dusty ass dreads. The son Steven is in Prison. Doing 5 years. The youngest moved to Cali. She straight up disappeared . She has no idea where she is.