Marriage In The 21ST Century

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

even if you make 30k a year, even now making 25k a year is a big life change.

plus even if you have zero now doesn't mean you will have zero 5 years from now.

Breh, you're scared of NOTHING and those stats you posted don't tell the whole story. The more educated you are (and older), the LESS likely you are to get divorced.
That '50% of all marriages end in divorce ' quote y'all keep throwing around here is straight and based on a PROJECTION from before 'No-Fault' divorces became available.​

 

[agnosticlady]

if black women were in shape more, didn't pump out of kids out of wedlock at such a alarming rate then more black men would be married.

You know when its cold in florida there is a shortage of oranges, just like with all these out of shape women and women pumping out of kids out of wedlock there is shortage of wifeable women

Sadly, this has a lot of truth to it.

According to the CDC 71.5% of children were born out of wedlock in the black community. The sad part is that a lot of the women are continuously having multiple kids out of wedlock.

 

[Yup]

I was agreeing with your last post. no need for the genderwar shyt

just further explaining.

 

[Yup]

That was quick and sad at the sametime

its the truth. Black people should focus on their common reality and not live vicariously through the reality of whites, that's what the coli taught me.

Black women are not allowed to have the same expectations that non-black women have of their male counterparts cause they are not subjected to the same challenges as black men...I concede. So let's be consistent on the topic of marriage as well.

Neg me all y'all want but I know you guys can't deny it.

 

[JSmoove29]

women file for divorce 75% of the time
60% of wives will cheat on their husband at one point in the marriage
9% of dads are raising kids they think are theirs

shyt is disgusting

 

[Yup]

shyt is disgusting

Be mad at a stat that applies to your community the least breh (assuming your black).

It's like me posting a stat on the percentage of people afflicted by skin cancer due to exposure to the sun...sure some blacks can be victims but on average...

Black women will have to get married to be able to divorce at the rate that black men and women marry.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh, you're scared of NOTHING and those stats you posted don't tell the whole story. The more educated you are (and older), the LESS likely you are to get divorced.
That '50% of all marriages end in divorce ' quote y'all keep throwing around here is straight and based on a PROJECTION from before 'No-Fault' divorces became available.​

I worked in a family law courthouse for 8 years. I saw men having their livelihood destroyed daily.

funny how my stats I posted no where did I mention divorce statistics
I said women file for divorce 75% of the time are you denying this?
I said 60% of wives will cheat during their marriage are you denying this?
and I said that around 9% of men are raising kids they think are theirs when they aren't are you dening this?

Also care to explain how currently, the only age group that is seeing a rise in divorce is people over 50.

 

[Pool_Shark]

 

[Swirv]

The power struggle between men and women

 

[How Sway?]

ouch

 

[MikelArteta]

Be mad at a stat that applies to your community the least breh (assuming your black).

It's like me posting a stat on the percentage of people afflicted by skin cancer due to exposure to the sun...sure some blacks can be victims but on average...

Black women will have to get married to be able to divorce at the rate that black men and women marry.

There are 364,000 more married black men than married black woman

 

[Yup]

I worked in a family law courthouse for 8 years. I saw men having their livelihood destroyed daily.

funny how my stats I posted no where did I mention divorce statistics
I said women file for divorce 75% of the time are you denying this?
I said 60% of wives will cheat during their marriage are you denying this?
and I said that around 9% of men are raising kids they think are theirs when they aren't are you dening this?

Also care to explain how currently, the only age group that is seeing a rise in divorce is people over 50.

And how many were black couples vs other races?

 

[Yup]

There are 364,000 more married black men than married black woman

my point exactly...so that means that black men get more divorced by non black women.

 

[Yup]

There are 364,000 more married black men than married black woman

As long as we are clear that this is not a black women issue...its a becky/lacianaga/chun lee more so than a bw issu,we're good.

 

[A1aaa]

can you avoid some of these issues if you marry a woman in a comparable income bracket?

so many traps, but at least if you get with a woman who doesn't want a free meal ticket, you'd be better off relatively in the case of a divorce... right?