FunkDoc1112
Heavily Armed
You have no understanding of how abuse works. Like breh above said, women stay with even broke ass abusers. Victims internalize the shyt, tell themselves they just get in a bad mood sometimes or feel like they provoked them in some way, etc. Lot of gaslighting going on. Plus abusers to be very possessive and isolate you from your friends and family. It's so easy to say "Just leave" but them folks know who you work with, who you hang with etc. Now you got a stalker on your hands and the average person can't just upend their whole life and move out of town on the drop of a dimeI'm not looking to start an argument breh. I'm saying she stuck around and dealt with his shyt for YEARS. If it was that intolerable, Then get the fucck out of there.
Would you stay in a relationship for years with a woman who puts hands on you/Is short tempered?
Would you stay in a relationship for years with a woman who's sleeping with other men?
No you wouldn't, Because you're a grown man and you know better.
It's not like the shyt with the women that worked for him where he could ruin their careers with the stroke of a pen.
He met this woman in a lobby and offered to trick on her and she agreed and that relationship went on for years. At any point she could have walked away but she didn't. She's a grown ass 30-40 year old woman who knows right from wrong.
In Janel's case she was broke and desperate, one of her parents just died, she probably convinced herself the lifestyle/security was worth the abuse or just shut it off. Many people have passive personality types - if bad shyt happens in a situation that started off good, especially when they have shyt at stake, they just handwave it or convince themselves/get convinced by the abuser that they're bugging. And in sexual situations with a man that's stronger than them? Where resisting can get met with any possible level of violence? They'll just shut themselves down and let it happen so things don't get worse, the same way you just give a robber anything they want if you got nothing to defend yourself with.
And rich and powerful folks, they might not go as far as killing you but they know plenty of other ways to ruin your life.