Males With High Bodycounts Are More Likely To Cheat &/Or Have Failed Monog Relationships

[Anerdyblackguy]

What do you think about the statement in op? Do you agree/disagree? Why/whynot?


Background questions: What is your real body count and what is your age?Are you/were you a cheater?
Has a woman ever asked you about your body count?Were you honest about it? why/why not?
If you lied, did you lie higher or lower than the actual number? Why?

Answers:

1) I do agree that people with high body counts are more likely to cheat ( it’s not guaranteed, but probably higher).

2) My real body count is one ( with my first real girlfriend). Age 28 will be turning 29 in two weeks.

3) I’m not a cheater. Never have hopefully never will.

4) Has a women ever asked about my body count? Nope!

5) I never lied about it, HOWEVER I may start lying in the future. At 29 with one tag I’m starting to feel insecure ( word to Issa) about it.
I’ll just say three or four and keep it moving.

 

[Elle Seven]

I feel you but...you married him, so imma assume that he knows what he's doing...(nahmean?)

What I wonder though...is if his bodycount was exceptionally low (say you were number 2 or 3) but he was disappointing in bed, would that somehow be better?

I see a lot of women hating on brehs with high bodycounts but I see even more women clown brehs who are inexperienced and/or unskilled at sex

I wouldn't have clowned him. Might have just thought he was very discriminating where he put his dikk.

Had he been inexperienced, his "willingness" to learn and explore would have been sufficient. We could have taught each other.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

A extremely high body count shows that something is off. hell a high body count shows something off, but that can steam from a number of things outside of just being thotful.

I'd say a extremely high body count from a person would have increased chances of them stepping out or cheating.


At the same time it could also mean that they are over that and the person they married has something that random hookups didn't offer.

My body count is low

 

[Mowgli]

 

[The Mad Titan]

My body count is low

Low hundreds

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Low hundreds

Ask your girl
She knows what's up

Fred

 

[The Mad Titan]

Ask your girl
She knows what's up

Fred

 

[Jekyll]

Whats a high body count? If you in single digits I just gotta believe you still in middle school or something. But I'm from GA tho so there's that. I once lied and told a girl I had like 15-16 and she thought that was low.

 

[Giselle]

According to his count, I was the 151st See what I mean?

Do you think he may have had some mental/emotional issues?

How did you two meet and how long were you two together before y'all became physical? & how long was it before he proposed to you?

A extremely high body count shows that something is off. hell a high body count shows something off, but that can steam from a number of things outside of just being thotful.

I'd say a extremely high body count from a person would have increased chances of them stepping out or cheating.


At the same time it could also mean that they are over that and the person they married has something that random hookups didn't offer.

I agree with the first 2 parts of your post, but the last part, idk.

I don't believe a "special" person will change someone. People can only change themselves.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Do you think he may have had some mental/emotional issues?

How did you two meet and how long were you two together before y'all became physical? & how long was it before he proposed to you?



I agree with the first 2 parts of your post, but the last part, idk.

I don't believe a "special" person will change someone. People can only change themselves.

Your right, people can only change themselves but a lot of time people change to because off the influence of another person. A man might step up because he has a kid or wife in his life now, a wife might step up and change because she has a husband or kid.

Alot of men grow or change because the right woman came along at the right time, and same thing with women.


It should be a natural thing tho, other people influence what we want to become. Its just human nature

 

[Giselle]

Whats a high body count? If you in single digits I just gotta believe you still in middle school or something. But I'm from GA tho so there's that. I once lied and told a girl I had like 15-16 and she thought that was low.

I think it depends on your age. 20 for a 50 year old probably isn't super high, but 30 for someone who's 20 is. That's like 10 people per year.

Your right, people can only change themselves but a lot of time people change to because off the influence of another person. A man might step up because he has a kid or wife in his life now, a wife might step up and change because she has a husband or kid.

Alot of men grow or change because the right woman came along at the right time, and same thing with women.


It should be a natural thing tho, other people influence what we want to become. Its just human nature

So what do you have to say for when they cheat after they so called "step up" and get married/have a kid.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Op you’re always on some data collection shyt. Makes me feel like you’re some rogue LSA spy or something


I agree with you mostly tbh, the more promiscuous you are, the more likely you are to cheat but my bodycount is 0 (Im young asf) and Id cheat but only in rare circumstances.

Id only cheat on a woman who I think is a bird or who has done me wrong in the past though, cheating on good women is shytty behaviour.

I have friends with high bodycounts for 18 year olds and they wouldn’t cheat so idk.

 

[Elle Seven]

Do you think he may have had some mental/emotional issues?

How did you two meet and how long were you two together before y'all became physical? & how long was it before he proposed to you?

Lmao at that gif.

Same of story. First love broke his heart, so he unleashed revenge, IDGAF dikk on those in his path for a couple of years.

We knew each other from HS. Hated each other up until senior year where we seemed to come to a mutual respect for one another. Kept in touch through the years I was in school and he was in the service.

After 4 years, when he came home in August, we started dating in September and he proposed in November.

We were intimate for the first time a few days before he proposed.

ETA: I don't think he had any emotional or mental issues.

 

[Nemesis]

What is your bodycount though? I doubt it is that high if you do not pursue women.

What were those "various reasons"?

The bold if my point, usually guys who have high body counts do not usually turn women down, that is how their body counts got so high.NEVER isn't realistic. Ofcourse most guys are going to reject women who are not that attractive to them.

Aren't you the guy from the flop tidal thread btw? It's still flopping.

I lost my virginity when I was 15 ..... Im 36 unmarried

even If I slept with only 3 women a year ...do the math

I used to own a club , even the barbacks and the dude that collected the empty cups had women all over them ....

You dont get it, if you think that the only reason why a dude would reject a woman because of her looks you are deluded,

some women I turned down because I knew they were just interested in money

some were fukking annoying who thought too much of themselves

some were too demanding from the gate

some were stupid

some of them had the personality of an empty toilet roll

some lived too far


i could go on ......

getting women is easy...... staying faithful, making a relationship work, thats the hard bit


I have a rough idea of how many women but I dont want to post it up, what I can tell you is that when I was 23 in the month of november I decided I didnt want to buy any chick I was seeing a christmas present, I was in my friends house, a dude called Udobong .... anyways I write down all their names and to my surprise it was 9 women , none of them were wifey just women I was casually seeing/sleeping with , called them all one by one and just said I needed time out

 

[The Mad Titan]

Lmao at that gif.

Same of story. First love broke his heart, so he unleashed revenge, IDGAF dikk on those in his path for a couple of years.

We knew each other from HS. Hated each other up until senior year where we seemed to come to a mutual respect for one another. Kept in touch through the years I was in school and he was in the service.

After 4 years, when he came home in August, we started dating in September and he proposed in November.

We were intimate for the first time a few days before he proposed.

ETA: I don't think he had any emotional or mental issues.

yall not together now?